Eku Edewor Speaks On Romance


The Nigerian men I have dated have been very romantic; I guess it
depends on the type of man one attracts and also what one deems
romantic. Know whom you’re with, some guys don’t want to say
cheesy things and look into your eyes but they will always make sure
your happiness comes first. Not everything has to be a large
“romantic” gesture. Romance has to do with being selfless. Simple
things like, choosing to stay with your girlfriend all weekend watching
movies instead of being at the clubs all weekend with the boys is
romantic; others are sending flowers for no reason at all, surprise
dinners, heartfelt messages. If your partner really knows you and loves
you, he’ll find ways to be romantic and find ways to make you happy.
I actually find Nigerian guys far more active and good when it comes
to making large romantic statements. A tip to guys, flowers always
makes women happy, even if they say they don’t love flowers. They
probably do and if sending chocolates with cards is what your lady
wants, it really won’t hurt or take much time."