“Dare me if you can go this far” she said.
Damn I am so Fucking Sexy looking at myself Naked
in the Mirror makes me so Horny I wanna touch
myself..mmmmh! Aaaah!
A 'hypersexual' woman who claims to have slept with
300 people is so addicted to carnal pleasure that she
spends up to five hours a day having sex or pleasuring
herself.
Nessa Jay, 24, from Cromer, Norfolk, finds her
addiction to sex so hard to deal with that she is even
having therapy to try to curb it. Speaking to The
Sun's Jennifer Tippett, Nessa said:
'I get sweaty palms, I feel angry and I need to satisfy
myself if I don't get at least five orgasms a day
through sex.'
Nessa says sex addiction is hard to deal with. She first
discovered her thirst for sex after losing her virginity at
the age of 16 and within 8 years, has had sex with
300 people. She used to have sex with 'anyone I
could'. Nessa says she even used to meet sexual
partners in the supermarkets.
'First I chat to them a bit to make sure they're not
dangerous or odd but once I know they are OK we go
home together,' she said.
Nessa also says she's enjoyed sex with women and
has had threesomes. Her sexual appetite has in the
past wreaked havoc with her friendships and many of
her female friends cut ties with her because they were
afraid, worried that their boyfriends may be attracted to
her.
But trying to curb her nymphomaniac habit, Nessa now
channels much of her sexual energy in to her work as a
sex toy reviewer. She has tested 2,000 toys, and says
the nature of her job helps her to deal with her
cravings. However, while she has been polyamorous in
the past, she has one partner at the moment.
Nessa doesn't want her nymphomania to define her
and hopes people will view people with hypersexuality
as 'normal'. She said:
'I live an average life which most people my age would
live. I see friends, I write, I have hobbies; it's pretty
normal and pretty boring at times actually. My sex
drive may be higher than some but it's healthy because
I'm positive about it. I always make sure I have
incredibly safe sex and get tested regularly.'I'm
perfectly healthy. I can't change who I am or how I act
and I wouldn't want to,' she added.
As events to commemorate Nigeria’s centenary
(January 1, 1914 – January 1, 2014) continue, and
as I reflect on the condition of Nigerian youth today,
the perception of the precarious world that has been
shaped for us over the last 100 years became
stronger than ever.
Unarguably, the generations of young people who
have come on the scene, one after the other, in recent
decades, have found a country whose characteristics
and “climate” are changing. Today, the greatest
challenge is being young in a nation dominated by
fear and uncertainty.
Graphic, empirical or quantitative evidence strongly
support this assertion:
According to the Nigerian Bureau of Statistics (NBS)
“2012 Youth Baseline Survey Report”, the population
of Nigerians below the age of 35 years comprises
60% of the entire population of the country.
Assuming that the 2006 census and the 2012
estimate of 167 million for people resident in Nigeria
are correct, then the youth population in Nigeria
today may well be over 100 million.
Of this number an alarming 54% are unemployed, the
NBS report shows (I reckon that the
underdevelopment of agriculture through years of
neglect and poor policy administration, comatose
extractive/mining sector, de-industrialization and the
failure of manufacturing over time have contributed in
no small way to the poor employment figures).
Also, the United Nations Development Programme
(UNDP), in its 2013 Human Development Index (HDI)
Report, ranked Nigeria amongst countries with low
development index at 153 out of 186 countries that
were ranked. Adult illiteracy rate in Nigeria is 61.3%.
Life expectancy is placed at 52 years while other
health indicators reveal that only 1.9% of the nation’s
budget is expended on health. 68.0% of Nigerians are
stated to be living below a miserable $1.25 daily.
Additional worrisome data are that, while South
African and Egyptian universities make the list, no
single Nigerian university is ranked among the best
10 in Africa and top 400 in the world, as the “Times
Higher Education World University Rankings
2013-2014” show. “T.H.E. Ranking” is the only
global university performance table to judge world-
class universities across all of their core missions -
teaching, research, knowledge transfer and
international outlook.
Of course, social services today are exceedingly poor
and the decay in public infrastructure is glaring for
all to see. Or does one need any data to appreciate
the challenges that the problem of ethnicity,
diminishing national consciousness, religious
intolerance and unchecked activities of militias and
terrorist organizations pose to security at societal
and individual levels in Nigeria today? The gory
pictures from the recent massacre of over 30 students
in Yobe State by Boko Haram insurgents tell the tale
better.
As gloomy as they appear all the data given above do
not sufficiently portray the ‘real’ drama of today’s
youth. The critical issue is something denser;
something that goes beyond the unemployment
statistics and the tables confirming that the world
has changed and that the guarantees of a generation
ago are almost impossible in today’s times of
ferocious competition and obligatory flexibility.
At the heart of the matter is the question of ideology.
Today’s youth are immersed in epochal changes. We
were not born in historical circumstances in which
time-tested, traditional value systems are handed on
almost mechanically. We find ourselves before a
diversity that forces us to choose.
Sadly, the ideology that reads everything in terms of
“individual” success; where the value of a person is
measured by the possession of material wealth
(materialism), is what many young people, in recent
decades, have lived by (how much culture, movies,
and music bear this terrible news!).
Relationships, family, ideals have been pruned, cut
away. “Solipsism” - the belief in oneself as the only
reality - and, even worse, “Nihilism” (the belief in
nothingness), are gradually taking root in our youth.
The results? Various forms of impatience,
disappointment and, yes, fear. So much so that many
young people today have become violent against
themselves, others and the world.
While everything in a person tends to search for
something that satisfies fully his desire for beauty,
truth, and justice, what we meet and what is
proposed publicly and privately seems marked by
condemnation, precariousness, uncertainty, and
doubtfulness
The real drama, therefore, lies in truly finding
something that satisfies one’s life. And life as it is,
with its limitations and its precipices, not life as a
soap opera. This is the story, splendid and terrible,
that is on the stage in the Nigerian theater, and
pertains to all.
Traitor fathers
But where has the father, in his inexcusable absence,
gone? Italian author and playwright, Giovanni
Testori, wrote about those “traitor fathers” who had
coined a medal with no flip side, “the medal of
easiness, that did not envision its flip side: difficulty.”
They then passed it on to their children, betraying the
very ones they had generated.
Indeed, the Nigerian society today is full of such
“traitor fathers” who have failed to transmit to the
young the values of hard work, dignity in labour,
selflessness, social responsibility, accountability,
fairness and respect for others, reminding us that
fatherhood is not a “natural” given but is cultural
and educative.
The dearth of “adults” who are a presence bearing a
true identity, a positive hope, a constructive certainty
or meaning for their lives leaves many young people
in an immense solitude, which they fill with the easy
and sometimes terrible “games” that are readily
available.
Thanks to these traitor fathers who have
institutionalized corruption in every facet of our
public life through years of bad leadership (with a
score of 25 out of a possible 100 points, and ranked
144 out of 177 countries measured, Nigeria emerged
the 33rd most corrupt country in the world in the
Transparency International Corruption Perception
Index 2013), our youth have imbibed a lifestyle of
greed and a “get-rich-quick-at-all-cost” mentality.
But how can the youth see things any different in a
society where corruption is the norm and thieving
politicians and fraudulent businessmen are celebrated
as heroes? Where a poor, hungry man who steals
another’s ‘cube of sugar’ is imprisoned while a public
official who embezzles ‘billions of dollars’ of our
common wealth is allowed to go scot-free, or even
granted Presidential pardon?
The Need for Re-orientation
At individual and national levels, there is a
paramount need for reorientation; a changed set of
attitudes and beliefs. There is need for an education
(The fundamental idea in the education of the young
is that it is through the younger generations that
society successively rebuilds itself), and parents and
religious leaders have a role to play here, as much as
educational institutions do.
Let’s be clear: the concept of education I am referring
to is not “mere acquisition of academic
qualifications” (as, unfortunately, obtains in most
institutions of learning today). No! I mean education
as Luigi Giussani, Italian educator and founder of
International Communion & Liberation Movement,
describes it in his book “The Risk of Education” - “an
introduction to total reality.”
To educate means to introduce a person to reality by
clarifying and developing his primary or original view.
True education, therefore, has the inestimable value
of leading a person to the certainty that things, in
fact, do have a meaning, and “tradition” is an
important component of the educational process.
Unless young people are taught about the past
(tradition) from within a life experience that highlights
a correspondence with the heart’s deepest needs; in
other words, from the context of a life that speaks for
itself (a true father figure - who could be a parent,
teacher, or any responsible role model), they will grow
up either unbalanced or skeptical. If they have
nothing to guide them in choosing one theory (a
working hypothesis) over another, they will invent
skewed ones.
The youth must take this past and these reasons,
look at them critically, compare them with the
fundamental desires of their heart, and say, “this is
true”, or “this is not true”. As they grow older,
following this educational method, their passion for
life acquires an intensity and brilliance that even the
educator could not have fathomed, and discloses to
them the dignity of their personality and the affinity
with the divine that gives it its substance.
Of course, this “recollected awareness of the ultimate
sense of life’s mysteries” must become a spiritual
exercise, an ascetic path, and thus a suitable
perspective from which to live out a goal worthy of
their lives.”
Healthy séx may need a lot of efforts but there are a
few things that can be very effortless as well as good
for couples’ séx life. Kissing is one of those
wonderful things that have several benefits. It
releases endorphins which make one feel happy. A
kiss can be the most effective way to express your
love for your spouse.
When you kiss someone, you make them feel loved;
you tell them how much you love them. Kissing can
be a handy pain killer; it releases adrenaline which
can reduce the feeling of pain. A kiss can help take
away one’s mind from pain and experience
something good. A kiss at the right time can boost
relationship or even take it to a new level. Never miss
a chance to let your spouse feel special and know
how much you love him/her with a kiss.
When we kiss, both men and women produce the
hormone oxytocin that causes us to bond. A kiss a
day boosts immunity against viruses. Kissing works
wonders...
It helps get couples closer. A good kiss is a stress
buster. Cortisol, the stress hormone, is not only
dangerous to our immune system, it also decreases
endocrine hormone in the system and brain but sex
therapists have observed that kissing can lower the
cortisol levels. So kissing your spouse often helps
you fight stress. Nothing can be a better option for
foreplay and intimate moments than kissing. Kissing
ensures that both partners are on the right track to
some wonderful private moments. Lip locking,
another word for kissing, is one gesture couples
overlook and pay less attention to simply because
they do not know its benefits. Did you know that we
have different kinds of kiss?
Have you heard about butterfly kind of kiss? This is
not only delicate but cute. To do this, make sure your
faces are less than a breath away. Then open and
close your eyelids against your spouse’s cheek and
you would feel your heart fluttering with joy. Then we
have the cheek kiss which is one of the best. This
was actually the type of kiss you shared with your
spouse while you were still dating or in courtship.
With this type of kiss, your heart skips when your
crush comes over and bends to plant a kiss on your
cheek.
You would recall that as you kissed your girlfriend
then, you were at the same time putting your hands
around her shoulder [ a sign of possession] and
softly touching her cheeks with your lips over and
over again.
Another type of kiss which couples enjoyed while still
dating but have now almost neglected is the Eskimo
type of kiss.
The kiss is an expression of subtle
intimacy. It involves two people standing so close to
each other. Nothing works more romantically than
altering the tune of breathing by rubbing each other’s
nose. This is most recommended for couples, but
unfortunately bad breath most times makes this very
difficult.
The eye kiss is another type that many couples are
missing especially when they are not used to body
contact or open display of affection. With this type of
kiss, such challenge can be easily worked upon. This
is not the eyeball kiss that will put you or your
spouse at risk of infections, but one that is many
times tender and soulful. Hold your spouse’s head
with your hands. Slowly move their head in the
direction that you want to kiss and when your lips
have reached the eyes, plant a kiss.
I personally think that couples have fewer secrets to
hide when they look into each other’s eyeball
regularly. If you are a spouse that seldom have time
because of busy schedule, then what you need is the
eyelid kiss. With eyelid kiss, you will not need to feel
guilty anymore. All you need do is just plant one on
the eyelid. This is a very intimate kiss that your
partner would probably never come to know of unless
they are awake.
How about the earlobe kiss? All you need do is gently
plant kisses on the cheeks of your partner and move
towards his or her earlobe, then gently sip and suck
on the earlobes.
The finger kiss, you may already have done this with
your partner without really knowing that it is a type of
kiss in itself. The finger kiss involves gently rubbing
the partner’s fingers and sucking on them. This can
be surprisingly seductive and deeply passionate. This
is actually recommended for couples of all ages. A
good kiss is that subtle expression of intimacy.
A good kiss dropped on the cheeks of one’s spouse
is like refreshing morning dew but it takes two to
experience a good kiss.
BY FUNMI AKINGBADE
Singer Rihanna caused a lot of buzz at the Balmain
after party when she took it off and left her things
bare...
She got to the venue with a beautiful jacket, but
decided to take it off. Always a bad girl...!
The title of the song is "Temptation" so they went all
the way to show it to us in the video. More pix
below..
Those who complained about Omotola's cute short
dress, what are they going to say about Emma
Nyra's?
Star footballer, Samuel Eto’o, has moved on and
already hanging out with his friends and he just
gifted singer Davido a brand new Rolex Watch. On the
age fraud allegation, Eto'o says he is not ready to
"cause trouble" by responding to comments made by
Chelsea boss Jose Mourinho about his age.
Eto’o was happy to joke about the issue with
reporters, claiming he still has ‘juice’ and can keep
scoring goals "until I am 50." Below is how Eto'o
reacted to the issue of his alleged age cheat...
“I am Samuel Eto’o, to disturb me will take
much more than this. I know my place and I
won’t reply. I would have liked to be in the
starting Eleven so I am disappointed to be on
the bench, but I respect the choice of the
coach.
“I came to Chelsea mainly because of Jose,
because we have a great friendship. Things
happen in life and you have to face them. But it
doesn’t change the player I am and the career I
have had. You want me to cause trouble by
revealing all of my thoughts. I want us to go as
far as possible in this competition and in
peace.”
When a man makes small cash and all he could think
of is how to enjoy a hot session with a popular
ashawo in a popular "joint" in town then you should
know that something is wrong somewhere, seriously.
As you read this, a man, identified as Ogadinma
Chukwu, has lost his life while "in the act" with a
commercial séx worker at a popular brothel located
on St. Michael’s Road, Aba, Abia State. Sources say
the man, whom they alleged to be a regular visitor to
the brothel, died while romping the prostitute.
It was gathered that immediately Mr Chukwu slumped
and died, the prostitute contacted her colleagues and
the manager of the brothel who moved his corpse to
a sanitary lane at the back of the brothel...
As a result of the development, shop owners in the
area quickly closed business for fear of police arrest.
Those who spoke anonymously on the development
disclosed that staff of the brothel at 5pm brought out
the corpse through their back door, dropped it at the
sanitary lane and disappeared.
Sources say the man might have died of a cardiac
arrest or exhaustion as white foam gushed out of his
mouth.
Policemen from the Aba Central Police Station, who
conducted a search at the scene, recovered an ATM
card, a cheque book and cash of over N200,000 as
well as a Man O’ War Association of Nigeria identity
card, bearing the name, Ogadinma Chukwu.
Contacted, the Commander, Man O’ War Association,
Aba, Uche Egbuziem, identified Ogadinma Chukwu as
a former member of the association.
Hey Okoro, make sure you know what you are
copying from that young boy.. otherwise your name
is sorry!
*LAUGHS*
This so called big girl threw caution to the wind
recently and engaged a guy in a bitter street fight for
failing to pay her the agreed money after their
"wonderful" bedroom activity.
Sometime ago, I discovered that a friend of mine is
playing under 21 in Nigeria and according to his data
he is just 20yrs old. I was shocked! But I later
discovered that it's called football age. If you try to
expose the truth many people will hate you, they will
say you are an "enemy of progress". So, the lies
continue
Could this be the case with Samuel Eto'o? Anything
is possible. It seems Chelsea coach, Jose Mourinho,
is one of those who doesn't believe that Eto'o is just
32-year-old. In the words of Mourinho: "The problem
with Chelsea is I lack a scorer. I have Eto’o but he is
32 years old, maybe 35, who knows?"
But his ex-lover, Anna Barranca, who has an 11year
old daughter with him, has exposed Eto'o...
The 43years old lady said Eto'o is not 32yrs as he is
claiming but that he is 39yrs old going on 40yrs.
Below is what Anna Barranca told The Sun UK:
"I think Samuel is not 35 [as Mourinho suggested] he
is more 39. Samuel was born in 1974 and so that
makes him 39 now.' She claims she was informed of
Eto'o's true age when they were dating by a friend
who grew up with the footballer in Cameroon.
Anyway, Eto's official documents states that he was
born in 1981. Who do we believe?
Embattled actress, Yetunde Akilapa, who was caught
with a bunch of keys, said to be tools used in
breaking into people’s homes, is said to have
returned from a spiritual home, where she went for
her rehabilitation.
Yetunde claimed that her ‘kleptomaniac’ habit was
not natural, saying she needed spiritual cleansing to
regain her normal life. She said she is now ready to
continue with acting.
In her words: “I am not quitting again. God has
finally shamed my critics and enemies. It’s true
I have not been around for two weeks. I was
going through marathon fast and prayers.
"First, I had to go to my hometown on my
mother’s invitation. That was where I stayed for
about two weeks for spiritual cleansing, and I
thank God I have triumphed over my enemies.
The devil has lost the battle. I am a conqueror
forever.”
Yetunde said although she is a member of the
Redeemed Christian Church of God she had to attend
another church and sick spiritual help which had
made her return to her natural self.
“Now, I am happy that the battle is over. As I speak
to you, I'm on a movie location with some of my
colleagues. They are all happy that I am back. I pray
that any weapon fashioned against me again shall
never prosper,” the actress said, happily.
Hopefully, we won't hear any funny story about her
again!
When churches compel ladies who have been séxually
active for years to just abstain from the act over
night it should be made clear that most of these
ladies may just be pretending to be abstaining
because of the man they want to get married to in
church but they are busy getting "enough servicing"
from other men.
This was the big mess that played out at a Redeemed
Church branch last Saturday, 22nd February, 2014.
The Senate President's wife, Helen Mark, was to play
hostess at the wedding. The bride, Cynthia worked for
her and was said to be an orphan thus had become
her adopted daughter. Guests got to the venue of the
big wedding at about 9am but 2hrs later, neither the
bride or the groom came out.
As guests started getting impatient, the groom came
out, took the microphone and announced to the
surprise of all guests present that he is no longer
interested in the marriage...
It later turned out that the the Redeemed Christian
Church of God, RCCG, that was supposed to wed them
had conducted a pregnancy test for the lady 24hours
before the day and the result turned out POSITIVE.
The BIG problem however is that the mam had never
slépt with the lady. So, who got her pregnant? The
lady on her own part insisted she was not pregnant
and went to do her own pregnancy test in a different
hospital and the result came out as NEGATIVE. Crazy
drama in church.
Redeemed church called their doctor to do a second
test and the test traced the thing and it was
POSITIVE!
The church did several tests and all came out
POSITIVE, but the lady is still insisting that she is not
pregnant.
Could it be that she had terminated her "pregnancy"
and did not know that the church's test could trace
it?
The man insisted that he can't marry a woman who
is pregnant for another man, and a liar. David Mark's
wife and her people begged the man to forgive and
marry her but he stood his ground. Never!
A source told nastygist.com that the man's main
anger was that when they were dating she didn't
allow him to go "far", meaning there was no special
torching. She was trying to paint herself as a good
girl before her man, so he can't go ahead and marry
her since another man was enjoying what he was
denied.
The lady cried but it didn't change anything. Some
guests ate their rice others didn't. The man walked
away!
What do you think?
A reader sent in the photos, saying Omotola's dress
is too short. Can she sit comfortably in public with
this?
Nollywood actress Uche Ogbodo got married secretly
to an America-based footballer, Apo Arthur, last year
October in her home state of Enugu. Some reports
have been flying about her in the media but Uche has
now come out to tell her fans that she is indeed
pregnant for her husband and that she is really doing
good.
It seems plans have been concluded to arrest the Governor of Rivers
State, Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi, upon the expiration of his tenure by
May 29, 2015. This purported plan was revealed to journalists by no
other than the Supervising Minister of Education, Nyesom Wike.
The Ministers said: "Once INEC announces the victory of President
Jonathan, we will immediately shut down the Port Harcourt
International Airport and all land and sea boarders in Rivers State to
prevent Governor Amaechi from escaping ."
But reacting to Wike's "childish talk", the APC said as at today
majority of Nigerians have rejected PDP and the likes of Jonathan
and Wike who have nothing good to offer the people. An APC source
said:
"Is it not if Nigerians vote for you that you can be in power? Is it
not if you are in power that you can even contemplate arresting
anybody? Let Wike continue his childish talk. Obasanjo has
already told Amaechi not to be afraid of those fake Abuja
politicians. We won't threaten anybody, but Nigerians will decide
and when the result is out Wike's eyes will be clear."
Wike is however insisting that he knows Amaechi is planning to run
away from Nigeria as soon as the PDP is declared winner of the
Presidential election in favour of President Jonathan. He speaks with
much confidence as if he already have details of the election result for
2015.
Wike who spoke during a PDP function over the weekend in Port
Harcourt, claimed that the PDP will win an election in Rivers State
and Nigeria, no matter what anybody thinks.
Yesterday, news broke out that Nollywood actress Ebube Nwagbo has moved in with her ex-boyfriend, Limpopo crooner Kcee. But when she was
contacted on telephone by Vanguard to confirm the story, Ebube denied the allegation, insisting that she's still living in her house in the mainland.
“I am in my house in the mainland. I didn’t move into Kcee’s house in Lekki. He is a married
man. Let’s stop all these misleading stories. I am currently on set,” she reacted.
Ebube Nwagbo and the ‘Limpopo’ crooner used to be an item before the latter ended their relationship in 2010 when he got married to his wife, Ijeoma.
Vanguard reports Kcee's marriage to Ijeoma who has kids for him, however, crashed later on.
Yvonne Nelson rocked this outfit for her very recent Dstv/Africa Magic interview. You like?
See a 2nd photo after the cut
Yvonne Jegede share some intimate stuffs with Vanguard in a frank
chat. Bbelow is a brief excerpt...
You have a penchant for revealing parts of your body, like your boobs.
What happened today?
Well, it depends on the clothes. I have big boobs, so, if the clothes
are not big enough to cover my boobs you would not blame me for
that. I am not the person who made my clothes . I just put the
clothes on.
What does love mean to you?
I am a lover of love. I love to love. I love to be emotional. Love is
something that I appreciate. Trust me, I'm a good lover. I love my
fans, my folks, I love the people that matters to me. I love to have
people around me.
Is it true that you dated 2face?
I didn’t date 2face. I only featured in his “African Queen” video. I have
never kissed him before.
What is an ideal man to you?
I don’t even know what it is any more. But I think people at different
ages have different perspective in respect of what an ideal man is. He
should be more intelligent than myself. I need somebody I can learn
from him. He should also be able to take care of himself. That’s an
ideal man for me. He should not be ugly.
Which part of you body do you think is your selling point?
I think it is my brain. Talking about the physical things that attracts
men to me, it depends. Some people say, it’s my eyes, others prefer
my lips and my boobs . So, I do not know. When I love into the mirror,
I love everything about myself.
Are you not planning to get married?
When the time comes, I will get married. I have never given it a
thought. It’s not about thinking, it is about the right person coming
my way. Many ladies have been thinking about settling down for
years now, but Mr. right has not come their way.
You are saying that Mr. right has not come your way?
Let’s take it like that. I don’t even have any relationship right now.
Why is it that most actresses do not want to get married?
How do you mean? Do you think that a lady would decide to remain
single. As a woman, she still needs a man. If you do not have a man
in your life, it is so bad. She can never be a happy woman.
