Séx Before Marriage: This Is How You Should Do It

A lady, Jessica, who kept her "purity" until her wedding night, had
this to say about her boring marriage:

1. S é xual chemistry
Our bodies wanted different things from one another, so what we
ended up with was a horizontal battle. I would hear married
girlfriends talk about the joys of make-up séx and continue to sip my
coffee in silence. We would fight, and then have bad séx and then
fight some more. Every flaw in our marriage and in him seemed much
more miserable when combined with the possibility of faking orgasms
until death did we part. There was no relief.
Six months into our marriage, the idea of separating seemed more
appealing than feigning headaches for the rest of my life.
As Jessica found out, séxual chemistry is something that can really
only be ascertained by, well, having séx. She would make out for
hours with her husband before their marriage, so she thought that
would translate into awesome horizontal mambo. Unfortunately, it
didn't.

2. S é xual identity
What if your partner is gay and he/she doesn't even know it? There
are too many couples where one partner was able to cover up his or
her true sexual persuasion because he or she simply didn't made love
with anyone. Cos not having séx with the opposite séx means you
ignore those longings you might have for the same séx, and therefore
don't acknowledge them.

3. S é x itself
Not everyone is great in bed, and most people don't start out very
good at all. A lot of good séx is about listening to your partner and
being able to respond accordingly. But how do you know if someone
is a good listener or responder unless you try it first?

4. Size
Don't you want to know if your husband is packing a hunting rifle or a
tiny little plastic kid's pistol? After all, he knows how big your
"oranges" are. I'm not saying size should be a dealbreaker, but don't
you have the right to know what is down there?

5. S é xual issues
Séxual problems like premature éjaculation, inability to get an
eréction, or even an allergy to your partner’s semen are all
possibilities, wouldn't you rather deal with those issues before you're
married? This way you know if your future is even going to address
them.
Let's face it, séx plays a big role in marriage. Just like you should
discuss children, religion, and where you both want to live before
tying the knot, séx is too big a part of a relationship to leave to
chance.
You are free to agree or disagree with my 5 reasons but you know
deep down this is the truth.

- Jessica