S£x Before Marriage: This Is How You Should Do It (MUST SEE)

A lady, Jessica, who kept her “purity” until her
wedding night, had this to say about her boring
marriage:
1. S éxual chemistry
Our bodies wanted different things from one
another, so what we ended up with was a
horizontal battle. I would hear married
girlfriends talk about the joys of make-up séx
and continue to sip my coffee in silence.

We would fight, and then have bad séx and
then fight some more. Every flaw in our
marriage and in him seemed much more
miserable when combined with the possibility
of faking orgasms until death did we part. There
was no relief.
Six months into our marriage, the idea of
separating seemed more appealing than feigning
headaches for the rest of my life.
As Jessica found out, séxual chemistry is
something that can really only be ascertained
by, well, having séx. She would make out for
hours with her husband before their marriage,
so she thought that would translate into
awesome horizontal mambo. Unfortunately, it
didn’t.
2. S éxual identity
What if your partner is gay and he/she doesn’t
even know it? There are too many couples
where one partner was able to cover up his or
her true sexual persuasion because he or she
simply didn’t made love with anyone. Cos not
having séx with the opposite séx means you
ignore those longings you might have for the
same séx, and therefore don’t acknowledge
them.
3. S éx itself
Not everyone is great in bed, and most people
don’t start out very good at all. A lot of good
séx is about listening to your partner and being
able to respond accordingly. But how do you
know if someone is a good listener or responder
unless you try it first?
4. Size
Don’t you want to know if your husband is
packing a hunting rifle or a tiny little plastic
kid’s pistol? After all, he knows how big your
“oranges” are. I’m not saying size should be a
dealbreaker, but don’t you have the right to
know what is down there?
5. S éxual issues
Séxual problems like premature éjaculation,
inability to get an eréction, or even an allergy
to your partner’s semen are all possibilities,
wouldn’t you rather deal with those issues
before you’re married? This way you know if
your future is even going to address them.
Let’s face it, séx plays a big role in marriage.
Just like you should discuss children, religion,
and where you both want to live before tying
the knot, séx is too big a part of a relationship
to leave to chance.
You are free to agree or disagree with my 5
reasons but you know deep down this is the
truth.

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