In Defence Of Lola Omotayo Okoye - Deschil

This post was written by Deschil:
Each time I read the nasty comments about Lola Omotayo Okoye
my heart gets heavy. I do not know her in person- just like most
of you. She has been called "old", "shameless" even a "gold
digger"! Some "kind" people even empathize with her and
"understand" that Peter married her because of her kids.
Let's get a few things straight;
Nobody has the right to choose another person's
spouse
I was in school with Psquare, Peter had a girlfriend-
Ada-whom he was crazy about. Ada is a splitting
image of Lola...does that imply anything?
Age is not the determinant of a good marriage; either
party could be older
Prince Charles married "much younger" Diana, how did
that go? How old is his present wife-whom he loved
all along?
Prince Williams forsook all the "younger girls" in
England and married an older bride
Sullivan Chime married a "much younger" Clara; again,
how did that go
For those who went as far as calling Lola a runs girl,
who sleeps with her "uncles", do you know this lady?
Do you know this for a fact or is it just hear say? Why
defame an innocent lady who is minding her own
business? Do you think Peter is a fool?
For those who justify these rumours with the story of
her living in a "mansion" in Ikoyi-shebi you people say
she is old? Do you know she has a career, did you
expect that at her "old age" she wouldn't have risen
through the ranks?
For those of you who see only young brides as a wise
choice, it is because you haven't gotten married yet.
There are some childish attributes the young wife will
have that will make you almost regret the marriage-
that is if you don't do that eventually
Peter knew very well what he was doing. He wants
peace, companionship and joy. A mature and
experienced mother for his kids. He saw all the "young
girls" world over before he made his beautiful choice.