Never have sex with a girl unless she’s sent you a text that
proves the sexual relationship is consensual beforehand. And
it’s a good idea to even follow up any sexual encounter with a
tasteful text message saying how you both enjoyed being with
one another — even if you never plan on hooking up again.
This is the advice of Roxanne Jones, founding editor of ESPN The
Magazine, shared on CNN.com about how best to prepare your
children for college, as they navigate the sexual waters of university
life.
She continues:
Parents worry about how best to prepare their daughters and
sons for college. In my case, I filled my son's duffel bag with
about 300 condoms and told him watch out for party girls but
have fun; meet new people but stay focused on academics..
Crazy, I know, but I’ve actually been encouraging my son and his
friends to use sexting — minus the lewd photos — to protect
themselves from being wrongly accused of rape. Because just as
damning text messages and Facebook posts helped convict the
high-schoolers in Steubenville of rape, technology can also be
used to prove innocence.
It seems nearly every week, we hear news stories about sexual
encounters at parties where everyone is drinking -- and a young
woman says she was raped, and a young man insists the
encounter was consensual.
In other words, Jones teaches her son that women cry rape all the
time and he should protect himself from false accusations of sexual
assault with inadmissable evidence, like a text message.
Do you agree with her advice? Would you encourage your male loved
ones to do same?
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