Why I Love Rolling With Older Men ––Nollywood Actress Queen

Single mum and actress, Queen Blessing Ebiegieson,
had an interesting chat with Nation. Enjoy...
Doesn’t the breakup of your relationship with
the father of your son confirm the insinuation
that Nollywood stars hardly have stable homes?
That is a false view. We actresses are just like
every other person. As a woman, you would
always want your relationship to remain intact.
But when you are in a relationship and you are
experiencing 70% pains, I will tell the person to
quit. It’s not by force. But if it’s 30% pains and
70% happiness, it’s worth staying because you
can never get 100% satisfaction - no man is
perfect.
Why this unusual obsession for older men? I
think that is me. Younger men don’t turn me on.
If you are 25 or 30 years old and you are
toasting me, then, you are just wasting your
time. Maybe because I don’t really like séx and
I always think they are after séx. Or maybe they
don’t think the way I do. So, it’s bull shit for
anybody to think I date older men because of
money. That is the person’s business and I
don’t give a damn.
Considering the fact that you loved that man, why did
you back out of the relationship?
You can love somebody; but sometimes, love is not
just enough. If your life is threatened and you end up
dying, will you go to heaven and show love to that
person? You have to live in order to love.
Considering the age bracket between you and your ex,
it’s widely believed that you dated him because of his
money. How will you react to this? Love has nothing
to do with age, especially when it comes to true love.
But we really don’t have true love here in Nigeria. A
lot of women go for fancy things. Even the first man
in my life was 30 years old when I was 20. He was 10
years older. That was how I started my life. I have
never dated my mates or younger men.
You don’t expect me to get entangled with someone
who is still in school. What if I get pregnant, who will
take care of my child? Where will we live? I’m a
realist. That is why I fall in love with someone whom I
know can take care of my children. The wrong thing
for any woman to do is to get married to anybody
who can’t take care of her and her children - that is
when you will start thinking of cheating.