Cristiano Ronaldo Wins Best Footballer Of The Year

Real Madrid forward Cristiano Ronaldo on
Saturday received Globe Soccer Award for the
fans favorite player in 2013.





The player was speaking at a Dubai
International Sports Conference when he was
awarded.

In his speech during the conference, Ronaldo
said it won’t be easy for him to record 69 goals
like he did in 2013.

“It won’t be easy to repeat what I’ve achieved.
But I will certainly try to break more records
because I won’t develop unless I try,” Ronaldo
said
“I’ve been developing myself for (almost) six or
seven years. I continuously improve and scoring
goals is part of the development of my (skills).”

Ronaldo, who is also the Portuguese national
team’s captain, commented on his team’s place
in the seventh group, along with the U.S.,

Ghana and Germany, in the upcoming 2014
World Cup.

“Portugal is most likely to be the first one to
make it to the second round,” Ronaldo said.
When asked who his favorite player currently
is, he jokingly said: “I am my (own) favorite
player.”

No Hell Fire; Adam & Eve Not Real ––Pope Francis Exposes?

One man who is out to right many old "wrongs" in the Catholic
church is Pope Francis. Some of the beliefs that are held in the
church but contrary to the loving nature of God are being corrected by
the Pope who was name The Man of The Year by TIME Magazine. I
don't know if he truly said this, but read it below...



In his latest revelations, Pope Francis was quoted by Diversity
Chronicle as saying:
"Through humility, soul searching, and prayerful contemplation
we have gained a new understanding of certain dogmas. The
church no longer believes in a literal hell where people suffer.
This doctrine is incompatible with the infinite love of God. God is
not a judge but a friend and a lover of humanity. God seeks not
to condemn but only to embrace. Like the fable of Adam and
Eve, we see hell as a literary device. Hell is merely a metaphor
for the isolated soul, which like all souls ultimately will be united
in love with God.”
In a shocking speech that is reverberating across the world, Pope
Francis declared that:
“All religions are true, because they are true in the hearts of all those
who believe in them. What other kind of truth is there? In the past, the
church has been harsh on those it deemed morally wrong or sinful.
Today, we no longer judge. Like a loving father, we never condemn
our children. Our church is big enough for heterosexuals and
homosexuals, for the pro-life and the pro-choice! For conservatives
and liberals, even communists are welcome and have joined us. We
all love and worship the same God.”
In the last six months, Catholic cardinals, bishops and theologians
have been deliberating in the Vatican City, in discussing the future of
the church and redefining long-held Catholic doctrines and dogmas.
The Third Vatican Council, is the largest and most important since the
Second Vatican Council was concluded in 1962.
Pope Francis convened the new council to “finally finish the work of
the Second Vatican Council.”
The Third Vatican Council concluded with Pope Francis announcing
that...
Catholicism is now a “modern and reasonable religion, which has
undergone evolutionary changes. The time has come to abandon all
intolerance. We must recognize that religious truth evolves and
changes. Truth is not absolute or set in stone . Even atheists
acknowledge the divine. Through acts of love and charity the atheist
acknowledges God as well, and redeems his own soul, becoming an
active participant in the redemption of humanity.”
One statement in the Pope’s speech has sent traditionalists into a fit
of confusion and hysteria...
“God is changing and evolving as we are, For God lives in us and in
our hearts. When we spread love and kindness in the world, we touch
our own divinity and recognize it. The Bible is a beautiful holy book,
but like all great and ancient works, some passages are outdated.
Some even call for intolerance or judgement. The time has come to
see these verses as later interpolations, contrary to the message of
love and truth, which otherwise radiates through scripture. In
accordance with our new understanding, we will begin to ordain
women as cardinals, bishops and priests. In the future, it is my hope
that we will have a woman pope one day. Let no door be closed to
women that is open to men!”

A few cardinals in the Catholic church are against Pope Francis'
latest declarations. Watch out for the report.

Congrates To Sean Tizzle (Headies Award Winner, A cute Car)



See The Car Below......



Congrates

How to Check If Your Husband/Boyfriend Had Sex While she Was Out [+18 Only]



1. Smell its odor
Normally it should have the filthy offensive odor of not having been
washed
If you smell semen or s*xual liquids odor
or the pleasant odor of bathing products
then it�s up to you [to decide why]�
While I�m at it, the normal offensive odor should be primarily from the
offensive odor of urine, slightly salty.
Semen and s*xual liquids odor are slightly fishy odor.
Normally when you have the chance, smell [his penis] more, lick more,
and slowly you will be more familiar with it.
2. Let it [the ejaculate] out and look at the color, white means he has
ejaculated within the past 3 days, yellow means he hasn�t. (Some
people say the color will change after time too, you can check
yourself.)

3. Check if there is any condom or soap odor.

4. Question: There are tests and there are countermeasures. If you
drink more liquids after doing the deed and urinate a few times, won�t
you then have the stench of urine again?
Answer: There is a difference between fresh urine stench and the urine
stench from a day without bathing�the key still lies with experience.
Normally, one must carefully observe and learn from experience.

5. Feel the eggs [scrotum/testicles]. If they have elasticity, then he
hasn�t ejaculated, but if they are soft and limp, then he has
ejaculated [recently]. This someone else taught me.

6. Every morning, draw something on his JJ~ If at night there is a
change in the design, then that means�
However, this is not necessarily accurate, [because] after he has done

it, he can just draw it again himself.
7. Spit some saliva on his JJ, rub it, and see if there is any residue.

8. Then you might as well put a paper seal on his JJ, and check at
night if the paper seal is intact, and also put a wax seal (very expert).

9. Let me provide one more method then. After bathing, apply some
baby powder or talcum powder to your husband�s JJ so that if it has
been washed later, you will definitely know what happened.

10. 1. Draw a firecracker on his JJ and if it is broken when he comes
back at night, then there is a problem.

>2. When he comes home, do it with him again and if the time is
longer normal and the amount he ejaculates is less than normal, then
there is a problem.

> 3. If he went to a sauna, smell his JB�s odor. If it is different from
the rest of his body�s odor, there is a problem. Normally, the
prostitute uses tissue to wipe the JB and PY. A wet/moist paper
towel�s odor is different from soap; some men will not bathe to avoid
suspicion, but a wet/moist paper towel will necessarily be used. If after
doing it he uses soap to bathe again, most men will not wash their JB
and PY with soap a second time, unless they are pros like me.

> 4. If he went to a KTV, even simpler, just smell his JB odor and see if
there is any JY left on his underwear. If it was done directly in the KTV,
normally they will only use a paper towel to wipe iit, and what more, it
is wiped beforehand, not afterward (they don�t even wipe after a
handjob). So it is very likely that it wasn�t cleaned very well or that
the JY that leaked [pre-cum] before doing it is still on the underwear.
Unless the man first wore a maxi-pad.

> 5. Check his knees, whether or not they are red, or if there are any
red marks on the inside of his shoulders�(no detailed explanation
necessary)

11. Please pay attention to how the balls [testicles] change when doing
it, it changes relative to the JB. When the JB is hard/erect, the
scrotum is taut. When the JB is soft/flaccid, the scrotum is relaxed.
However, when doing it a second time, even though the JB is hard/
erect, the scrotum will not yet have recovered to its taut condition, the
duration will be longer than the first time, although it will still become
taught when he ejaculates. Afterward, it will drop down again..

Nollywood Actress Who Is A Lesbian Caught "DOING IT" With Female Fan (LOOK)

Ezeoke Sochima, a star in nollywood industry
has been training five female fans who believed
and trusted in her to be her lesbian partners.




The fans who are involved in lesbianism with
Sochima Ezeoke are: Daisy who wrote "IN THE
FOOTSTEPS OF GENEVIEVE NNAJI ENTER
SOCHIMA EZEOKE", Dira, Chiamaka Sharon Eze
and Chinasa Sophia.
Chiamaka's parents found out that their
daughter was into lesbianism, Chiamaka was
beaten up by her brothers and confessed that
Sochima lured her into lesbo, Chiamaka
mentioned others as well.

Dira was quaried, she disclosed that Sochima
Ezeoke is a lesbian that she chose them who are
her fans to be her lesbian friends since she can
not do it with the ladies in the movies industry
and don't want it to be know by the public.

SEE The Sexiest and Cuttest Light Skinned Ghanaian Girl (SEE PHOTOS)

Her name is Maima and she’s just 20 years old
and a model. She’s from the land that used to
be known world over before as the Gold Cast,
but now better known as Ghana. This gorgeous
model is of mixed-parentage and is getting ready
to take over the world.




Her dream much later in the future is to
become a renowned fashion designer and she’s
gradually working her way towards becoming
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BREAKING!! Gun Duel Between Obasanjo And Jonathan

In the interest of peace, stability and national
security, it would, perhaps, be interesting to
have a throwback to the United States of
America’s July 11, 1804, when a former
Secretary of the Treasury, Alexander
Hamilton, and a sitting Vice President, Aaron
Burr, engaged in a gun duel to settle their
political differences.



Just as former President Olusegun Obasanjo
wrote an open letter to President Goodluck
Ebele Jonathan accusing him of sundry charges,
so did Hamilton launch assault on Burr
through a letter, defaming the latter;
manipulated the House of Representatives to
vote Thomas Jefferson as president over Burr.
And at a time in America when some states in
the north were outlawing gun duel, both men
took to the Heights of Weehawken in New
Jersey, a popular dueling ground. Burr mortally
wounded Hamilton who died the following day.
In today’s Nigeria, the contest for the
presidency in 2015 has pitched a sitting
President Jonathan, who is constitutionally
guaranteed to seek re-election, against some
members and leaders of his Peoples Democratic
Party, PDP, who insist that he should not run. It
all came to a head, penultimate week, with an
open letter to Jonathan by Obasanjo – the
animosity between Hamilton and Burr also
came to a head because of the former’s
derogatory remarks about the latter. Hamilton
and Burr settled their matter via a gun duel.
Would it not be nice if Obasanjo and Jonathan
settle their problem via a gun duel? No matter.
The problems confronting Nigeria today go
beyond the visceral outburst of two leaders. The
two men can resolve their problems if they
allow good sense to prevail. Just as was
suggested on these pages in 2005 when Obasanjo
and Atiku Abubakar were at each other’s
throat, the continued animosity between
Jonathan and his mentor would lead both men
to ends with unintended consequences.
Therefore, to save their party and whatever is
left of their political life, they must learn to
bury the hatchet and relate with one another as
they did when they started their romance.
However, for President Jonathan, there are
landmines ahead. Some have been placed there
by his detractors while he is also responsible
for laying some. Would it not be better for the
former president and his protégé to settle their
problems now, even if it means employing the
instrumentality of a gun duel, cool off rather
than suffer the consequences ahead for both
men and the polity if they continue on this path
of attrition.
IN THE BEGINNING
That Sunday evening after the presidential
contest of the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP,
then President Olusegun Obasanjo summoned
Goodluck Jonathan to Aso Rock Presidential
Villa. It was to inform him of his choice as
running mate to Umaru Musa Yar’Adua, the
party’s candidate who emerged earlier in the
morning. Jonathan did not see it coming. Just
before the contest, Obasanjo had invited Rivers
governor, Dr. Peter Odili, to the Villa for
breakfast and morning prayers.
After the prayers, Obasanjo compelled Odili to
drop his presidential ambition insisting he pays
a visit to Yar’Adua. Odili obliged. At Eagle
Square where the contest held, the initial
arrangement was that Odili would be picked as
running mate to Yar’Adua whose path had been
cleared by Obasanjo – it needs mentioning here
that all these, after bruising heads and breaking
limbs in the process. But Odili again became a
victim of highwire, dirty manipulation
Therefore, that evening when Obasanjo
summoned Jonathan, it was to inform him that
he would be the running mate to Yar’Adua.
Mind you, Obasanjo had, in mid-February 1999,
defied his party by unilaterally picking Atiku
Abubakar as his own running mate while
consultations were still on. Therefore, picking
Jonathan was not new. What was, however,
new, was that Obasanjo wanted Jonathan to be
a ‘Yes Man’. Revelations since after the ailment
of Yar’Adua got worse in 2009 and, which led
to his death, suggest that Obasanjo foresaw a
situation whereby Jonathan would finish the
tenure of Yar’Adua, contrary to Obasanjo’s
repeated denial that he deliberately foisted an
‘invalid on the nation as president’.
For Jonathan, who, initially in the third
quarter of 2005, neither believed that he would
become Bayelsa State governor, nor, in January
2007, conceived of the possibility of becoming
Nigeria’s vice president and then president, he
still appears overwhelmed by the reality of
leading a very complex and complicated
country like Nigeria. Between the two leaders,
something gave at some point.
OBASANJO’S PLOT
Sunday Vanguard had reported in March that
Obasanjo was already revving up his campaign
against Jonathan’s second term bid by holding
series of meetings with some northern leaders.
What we can report now is that whereas
Obasanjo had privately attempted to dissuade
Jonathan from seeking a second term, his open
letter of penultimate week was meant to
demonstrate to a section of Nigeria that since
private discussions were not yielding results, a
frontal attack would jolt the Presidency. It did.
Jonathan has since responded. There have been
mixed reactions to the tone and language of the
response from the presidency. Consultations are
on-going regarding the agenda to ensure that
Jonathan does not secure a second term. But
Obasanjo’s manipulative involvement in the
political ascendancy of Jonathan should not
become a magna charter for the former to
engage in malicious and demagogic domination
of the latter’s political space. Therefore, rather
than create unnecessary heat for the system
and in the system, those opposed to Jonathan’s
second term should simply mobilize Nigerians
and ensure that they vote massively against
him.
That way, the votes of Nigerians would
determine who would be elected president in
2015. The open letter from Obasanjo is just one
in a series of plots. The visit, penultimate
Saturday, of the leadership of the APC to
Obasanjo’s Abeokuta residence was another.
The former president is also said to be
intensifying his consultations with political and
religious leaders in the country.
POLITICAL SPACE ENDANGERED
Because politicians refuse to learn from other
peoples’ mistake, they serially commit the same
mistake as those before them. When Sunday
Vanguard broke the story on the crisis of
loyalty between Obasanjo and Atiku, his deputy,
in August 2002, while also warning of the
consequences of such a confrontation, it was
waved aside. The effect was that, from that
moment until 2007 when Obasanjo’s tenure was
completed, Nigeria’s political space suffered
from undue overheating.
As reported last week, whenever Obasanjo
openly confronts a sitting leader, consequences
arise. What makes the present circumstance less
dangerous for Jonathan, an Aso Rock insider
told Sunday Vanguard, “is that the governors
who defected from our party have only cleared
the coast for Mr. President to seek re-election”.
The insider added, “Mr President is as good as
having the party’s ticket. The president has also
been consulting widely and is relating to
developments with keen attention”. The problem
generated by Obasanjo’s open letter is that it
has divided the polity – those for Obasanjo and
those for Jonathan.
As the months roll by before the 2015 contest,
sympathizers and supporters alike would dig in
and become more entrenched in their positions.
Perhaps the most damaging aspect of Obasanjo’s
letter to Jonathan was the allegation that a
sniper squad was being trained. According to
Obasanjo, “Allegation of keeping over 1,000
people on political watch list rather than
criminal or security watch list and training
snipers and other armed personnel secretly and
clandestinely acquiring weapons to match for
political purposes like Abacha and training
them where Abacha trained his own killers, if
it is true, it cannot augur well for the nation,
the government and the people of Nigeria”.
Obasanjo also alleged that Jonathan was not a
trustworthy leader. Well, the president’s
response had its own fair share of vitriol and
vituperation. For instance, Jonathan said
Obasanjo lied barefacedly: The president’s
words: “The issue of Buruji Kashamu is one of
those lies that should not be associated with a
former president.
The allegation that I am imposing Kashamu on
the South-west is most unfortunate and
regrettable. I do not even impose party officials
in my home state of Bayelsa and there is no
zone in this country where I have imposed
officials. So why would I do so in the South-
west? Baba, in the light of Buruji’s detailed
public response to your “open letter”, it will be
charitable for you to render an apology to
Nigerians and I. In closing, let me state that you
have done me grave injustice with your public
letter in which you wrongfully accused me of
deceit, deception, dishonesty, incompetence,
clannishness, divisiveness and insincerity,
amongst other ills”.
Meanwhile, as the All Progressive Congress,
APC, chided the Villa for engaging in a show of
shame by the tone of the response to Obasanjo,
the Arewa Consultative Forum, ACF, added its
voice by accusing the Presidency of shirking in
its responsibility of judicially dealing with its
accusations against the Obasanjo regime.
JONATHAN’S GAMBIT
Whereas calling Obasanjo’s bluff may not
entirely amount to political sagacity on the part
of Jonathan, relying solely on the same Nigerian
politicians he has warned not to assume that
they own Nigeria for his own survival may also
not work for him. While those in the Jonathan
administration can claim to be making steady
progress, the massive gambit that they have
chosen to undertake is the disconnection with
the average Nigerian. There is the perception
that Jonathan is disconnected from the masses
of Nigeria just as his PDP continues to issue
statements that suggest that the grouse of the
governors who defected is true. What all these
translate into is that Nigerians may not really
matter.
For, were Nigerians to matter, the primary
concern of leaders of PDP would be the urgent
need to win the confidence of the people more
and dwell less on the distraction of the bitter
politics that it has needlessly created for itself.
A clear example of this was the six-month
industrial action by the Academic Staff Union
of Nigerian Universities, ASUU. Before ASUU
embarked on the action, notices were given.
During the strike, malady set in on the part of
government with the provocative threat to sack
tens of thousands of lecturers.
The government was forced to eat a humble pie.
Already, the Petroleum and Natural Gas Senior
Staff Association of Nigeria, PENGASSAN, and
the National Union of Petroleum and Natural
Gas Union, NUPENG, have issued an ultimatum
to government that they would work against the
proposed privatization of the nation’s
refineries. They plan to go on strike and ground
the economy to make their case.
Before the ink on the paper of the statement of
the two main unions in the oil sector dried,
Jonathan set up a committee to engage the
process of selling the refineries. Meanwhile,
barring any last-minute negotiations, Nigerians
would again be in for a new year’s crisis
should the strike go ahead – just as it happened
in January 2012. Yet, here was a president who
enjoyed massive goodwill between February
2010 and October 2011.
His rating, if truth be told, is plummeting fast.
Still, rather than package a set of people-
friendly initiatives that can buy back some of
the lost goodwill, the bitter politics and quest
for 2015 is the only news. Conversely, there are
those who insist that the conduct and carriage
of the band of opportunists around and inside
the Presidential Villa should be interrogated
vigorously lest they reduce – as they are doing –
the administration of Jonathan to one that
celebrates tokenism and cluelessness as standard
practice of political administration. THE GUN
DUEL TO COME Between Obasanjo and
Jonathan, can they spare Nigerians the hostility
they have brewed? Already, any support for
Obasanjo’s confrontation is inversely termed to
be an act of aggression against Jonathan.
Therefore, the hemlock that is being tended in
the political space is enough to replicate a
Guyana tragedy – in a manner of speaking.
Nigeria’s law forbids a gun duel. Even the gun
duel that saw the killing of Hamilton was in the
process of being outlawed in America by 1804
when it happened. (Read how US Vice President
killed former Secretary of the Treasury in a gun
duel) The civilized gun duel that would serve
Nigeria in the present circumstance would be
for Jonathan to woo Nigerians afresh with
people-friendly initiatives while, for Obasanjo,
he should mobilize campaigners against the
president’s second term. That way, the needless
overheating of the polity would be laid to rest –
as was the bitterness between the former
Secretary of the Treasury and the sitting Vice
President of America in 1804.

SEE What Pastor Tunde Bakare Did To The Gift President Jonathan Gave To Him

Pastor Tunde Bakare of the Latter Rain
Assembly is one of the few no-nonsense pastors
who say it the way it is to political leaders in
government, no matter if you are happy with
him or not.




It was gathered that Pastor Bakare has rejected
the Cow sent to him by President Gooodluck
Jonathan as a Christmas gift.




I hear that he told those who brought the Cow
to go back and tell President Jonathan to give
Nigerians good governance rather then this act
of sharing the country's wealth with a selected
few.

#MAKINGBRAIN

See This What The Bible Really Says About Oral S£X

** Recently, it went viral that a Pastor of CLAM
church, Wole Oladiyun warned that Oral S*x
was not for Christians. Maybe he read my
earlier blog post about Nigerian Men and Oral
Sex, or maybe his wife did, and asked him for
some, hehehe. The man sparked o.
**



his words, "men and women sucking their
private parts are equally damaging their glories.
Demonic partners have done a lot of havoc
through this act. Honestly, it is simply
unhygienic and dirty."

Now, I don't understand the first part of his
comment about oral s*x damaging people's
glories, or demonic partners, maybe that is
what he teaches in his church as doctrine and
dogma. If so, I can't really address it, I am not
a pastor obviously, nor his church member. But
the second part exposes that his bias and
personal opinion is what is majorly driving his
condemnation of oral s*x.

Can oral sex be dirty and unhygienic? Yes. If a
man or a woman is not clean and hygienic, or
take good care of their genital health, there is a
great likelihood they will be smelly, or harbor
unwanted fauna and flora in that area. Indeed,
cases have been reported of thrush and other
mouth and throat infections that come from
having oral sex. The more s*xual partners the
person has, and the more lax they are about
keeping themselves healthy, the more likely this
is that diseases may be passed.
However, the assumption is that married people
are faithful to each other, or maybe I'm just
hoping. Also, being married, you most times
become automatically s*xually active and have
to learn to take care of your genital health even
more. You wash up regularly, have your check
up for STIs, and always make sure you smell
clean and fresh before you try to initiate oral
s*x. If all these check out, and both man and
woman are in the mood for some good loving,
then let the fun begin!
So how does this affect Christians? Eya asked on
her blog about the biblical basis of pastors who
condemn oral s*x or about Christians allowing
themselves to enjoy oral s*x, and this is what I
have learned on the matter.

There are passages in Songs of Solomon that
actually promote how couples can enjoy their
sexuality and different aspects of sex. I think
more Christians need to remove their bias
against s*x and read the whole of SOS with
new adult eyes. Usually garden and fruits are
used to refer to female and male private parts.
As an apple tree among the trees of the forest,
so is my beloved among the young men.
With great delight I sat in his shadow,
and his fruit was sweet to my taste.

(Song of Solomon 2:3 ESV)
a garden fountain, a well of living water,
and flowing streams from Lebanon.
Awake, O north wind,
and come, O south wind!
Blow upon my garden,
let its spices flow.

Let my beloved come to his garden,
and eat its choicest fruits.

(Song of Solomon 4:15-16 ESV)
With that said, the bible is just an instruction
manual, for the believing Christian, our full
direction comes from the Holy Spirit in us. If
your conscience makes you uneasy, then it may
not be for you. But be sure it is the spirit,
sometimes, wrong things we learned in the
world can distract us from hearing the spirit
clearly. Like someone said, God is not an author
of confusion. If your wife or your husband
wants oral sex, and you deny him or her, you
are flouting the some bible instructions.

1 Corinthians 7:3-6 :
The husband should fulfill his marital duty to
his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.
The wife's body does not belong to her alone but
also to her husband. In the same way, the
husband's body does not belong to him alone
but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other
except by mutual consent and for a time, so
that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then
come together again so that Satan will not
tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I
say this as a CONCESSION, not as a command.

At the end of the day, it is to each their own.

Burna Boy Angry for Losing Headies Award & Car to Sean Tizzle

I don't think Timaya ever won Next Rated at the Headies but he went
on to become one of the biggest artiste in Naija. So, Burna Boy
should just chill and keep doing his thing, award or no award.




Credible sources at the just concluded Headies 2013 told
NastyGist.Com that fast-rising star, Burna Boy is not happy with the
organisers of the Headies Awards as he was caught on camera
walking out of the venue with a sad look on his face as soon as Sean
Tizzle was announced winner of the Next Rated category.
The award is meant to honour the most promising musician in the
outgoing year and it comes with a brand new Hyundai Tucson SUV
worth millions of Naira. Check out the beautiful car below...




Finally, Sean Tizzle defeated Burna Boy, Dammy Krane, Seyi Shay and
Phyno to get the award and the car.

Woman Allegedly Stabs Fiancé Over Wedding Colors

Wedding colors are the first step down the petal-strewn path to
bridal insanity, but it usually isn't this bad: The AP reports that
a South Carolina woman allegedly stabbed her fiancé after an
argument about their palette.




According to the cops, the victim was attempting to leave the
house and therefore the argument when she struck. The accused
has been charged with criminal domestic violence of a high and
aggravated nature.
Fortunately, the injuries were not life-threatening. Good thing
they weren't doing the seating charts.

President Obama Signs Military Anti-Sexual Assault Bill

On Thursday, President Obama signed a bill pushing back on
the ever-growing numbers of rape and assault victims in
America's armed forces.

Under the new defense bill, military commanders can no longer
overturn jury convictions for sexual assault, reports The
Associated Press, and that's not all.




It also requires a civilian review if a commander declines
to prosecute a case and requires that any individual
convicted of sexual assault face a dishonorable discharge
or dismissal.
Defense officials beat back efforts to more drastically
revamp the military justice system that would take
authority away from commanders and allow victims of
rape and sexual assault to go outside the chain of
command for prosecutions.



In 2013, the reported number of assaults in the military
increased by 50 percent. This might be because more victims felt
comfortable coming forward, a good thing because more stories
were shared and more soldiers were able to recognize sexual
assault and harassment in action. That wasn't the case before,
when many victims felt they would receive negative treatment
from their ranking officers and co-workers if they reported
their own, or someone else's, abuse.
Still, the military has much more work to do in cleaning up its
ranks. Programs like "If you see something, say something" have
been instituted for soldiers and some branches have restricted
alcohol sales to prevent sexual assault and harassment. Others
have also publicized the court martials of those charged with
sexual assault so their peers can see the results of their actions.

"We're still not where we want things to be," said Col.
Alan R. Metzler, deputy director of the Pentagon's sexual
assault prevention and response office. "But we think all
of this is having an effect."

Women Who Drink Could BeAt Higher Risk For LiverDisease Than Men

Alright everyone, say it with me, because it's time to play my
favorite game here at Jezebel: "A study has found!" Today, a
new study says women are more vulnerable to certain effects of
alcohol than men, because their bodies tend to be smaller and
they have less water in them.

Dr. Howard Monsour , chief of hepatology at Houston Methodist
Hospital, said women who have a genetic predisposition to liver
disease should consume alcohol only in moderation, or lay off
that shit altogether:



About 20 to 30 per cent of the population has a genetic
disposition to cirrhosis of the liver and Monsour said it is
important for people to know if they have a family history
of cirrhosis before making the decisions to drink large
amounts of alcohol.


Oh great, even deadly diseases that want to slowly and painfully
kill you are freaking sexist now. When are we going to finally
get a break; geez. "When women drink the same amount less is
dispersed and the concentration is higher. They also have a
lower activity of a metabolising enzyme in the stomach called
alcohol dehydrogenase (ADH)," said Dr. Monsour .


ADH helps convert alcohol to acetaldehyde, which
eventually is metabolized to carbon dioxide and water.
This causes a larger amount of the alcohol to reach the
blood and eventually in susceptible persons can lead to
cirrhosis of the liver, a disease that normally has no
visible signs until liver damage is too extensive.


And don't think you can try any of that LOL I SWITCHED FROM
VODKA TO BEER SO I SHOULD BE FINE NOW stuff, either. Dr.
Monsour said it's amount of the alcohol content people need to
pay attention to, not what kind of alcohol they are drinking.

I sure wish science would just make up its mind about alcohol
once and for all. Oh sigh.

The Official List Of TOP Ten Worst Nigerian Governors Of 2013

Despite the accolades the activities of most
Nigerian governors remain a hype, the work of
aggressive Public Relation stunt. A close look at
the work of these shrewd shaddy politicians
always reveal much more than meets the eyes.
Behind the curtain is systematic looting and
money laundering activities going on and
everyone is involved. Despite the shameless
corruption some of these governors have done
relatively well or have been percieved to have
done well.



Today we are discussing those who haven’t
done much or upto expectation, those who don’t
even know why they are governor. We are
looking at the first ten starting from 10 to
number 1.

(10) Delta State Governor : Despite the huge
revenue allocated to Delta State, Governor
Oduaghan hasn’t been able to bring remarkable
change to Delta State. When we hear what
people like Governor Rotimi Ameachi have been
able to achieve in Rivers State, his Delta State
counterpart is not known for any serious
infrastructural development. Oduaghan became
governor like most governor. He was the cousin
of the previous governor, James Ibori, who is
now languishing in a London prison after he
was found guilty of money laundery.
Oduaghan’s government is characterised by
sorrounding himself with friends and family
members and making them rich to the
detriment of the state. He has spent almost eight
years as Delta State governor and we haven’t
seen anything remarkable yet.

(9) TA Orji of Abia State is the worst governor
in Igbo land for 2013. In Nigeria he came as
number 9. The people haven’t seen anything
like dividend of democracy and many Abia
indegenous people have personally called to say
he is the worst governor in Nigeria. NEWISSUES
categorise him as number 9. His people expect
much from him but in the end governance to
some of these men in government is about
personal business and wealth accumulation for
themselves and their friends.

( 8 ) Kebbi State Governor Dakingari is
number 8 on the list. After talking to many
people in Kebbi State, they seem to all agree
that the man hasn’t done much. The good thing
is that the man doesn’t talk too much.

(7) FCT Minister Bala Muhammad, is the
number 7th on the list of the worst governor in
2013. Forget the title FCT Minister, we consider
the 37th Governor of Nigeria. Bala Muhammad
is going on record as the worst FCT Minister in
the history of the FCT Admiistration in Nigeria.
The FCT Minister is just doing anything but as
those who know him say, accumulating wealth
for his campaign for the 2015 Bauchi State
Governor election. His posters and billboards
are already all over the Bauchi State capital. He
has been accused of land racketeering. The FCT
administration is shamelessly corrupt and
nobody cares. Bala Muhammad efforts at
reforms in the transport area is the worst and
ludicrous. It is obvious that all the FCT Minister
cares about is generating revenue to the
detriment of the people. Under his nose the FCT
will demolish then later collaboarate with the
natives to sell these plots again. The man simply
lacks idea and Nigerians wonder why he hasn’t
been replaced. We heard it is because he is a
very good friend to Patience Jonathan, the First
Lady.

(6) Lamaran Yero of Kaduna state. After
Yakowa died his assistant became the governor
of Kaduna State. Governor Yero has not been
able to do anything since then. As a young man
people expect dynamic leadership in a conflict
State. Governor Yero hasn’t shown that he is a
promising leader.

(5) Murtala Nyako of Adamawa State is
number 5 worst governor on our list. Being an
old man one would think the man would do
something spectacular to leave a legacy for his
people. Nyako did nothing. He has been busy
throughout this year fighting the president.
That is more important to him than his people.

(4) Gabriel Suswan of Benue State and Isa
Yuguda of Bauchi State. These people have
made it to number 4 of the worst governors in
Nigeria. Suswan has not been able to pay
salaries, even to primary school teachers. In the
area of development, not much is on ground.
Benue is still one of the poorest states in Nigeria
in terms of infrastructures. Since 1999 Benue
State has been lucky with governor and Gabriel
Suswan is the worst of them all.
Isa Yuguda was once quoted as saying former
governor Muazu has done everything, so there
is no need to do anything. Muazu was
overwhelmingly voted in the first term despite
leaving the PDP to join the ANPP. He would
have lost if not for the rioting in 2011 but after
the CPC rioting he won. Isa Yuguda hasn’t done
much and if in 2015 the PDP lost to APC it
wouldn’t be because of Goodluck Jonathan hate
in the North
The worst three governors in the Nigeria is
coming soon.

(3) The third worst State Governor in Nigeria
is Kogi State Governor, Idris Wada . Since
becoming governor no one can pin point what
he has done in the area of human or
infrastructural development. Reckless, his
convoy had an accident twice within a short
while, one killing his ADC and the other killing
the former ASUU boss. Wada like his
predeccessor Ibrahim have not been able to do
what Prince Abubakar Audu did in Kogi State.
Wada is the third worst governor in Nigeria.

(2) The second worst governor in Nigeria is
Murtala Nyako. The old man hasn’t done much
in his State. One would think as an old man,
Murtala Nyako should do something different
for posterity to remember him. Murtala Nyako
is busy with the whole PDP and APC politics,
has been so absolve in it, you will think he did
something in his state. The man is a total
failure as far as governance is concern.

(1) THE WORST GOVERNORS IN NIGERIA
FOR 2013 ARE Niger State Governor,
Babangida Aliyu and Governor Tanko Al
Makura of Nassarawa State.
Babangida Aliyu, nick name the Billboard
governor is known for displaying his billboard
all over Minna, the Niger State capital. The
governor had the billboard of him and his
daughters made when his daughters got married
some couple of months ago. We don’t know if
the billboard were with his personal money or
State Government’s money. The road to Minna
from Abuja and the roads around Minna are
some of the most terrible roads in Nigeria.
Babangida Aliyu is one of the most noise
making and unpopular governor today in
Nigeria. Nobody takes him serious anymore in
Niger State. With his education and eloquence a
lot of people expect transformation.
Tanko Al Makura, Nassarawa State governor,
on the other hand was the only governor under
CPC before the merger. Winning under the CPC
ticket one expected him to work. One expect
him to do something with the opportunity and
to promote Muhammadu Buhari’s ideals. Al
Makura hasn’t done much. People all over
Nassarawa State are already complaining
bitterly about his government. He has divided
the people rather than bring them together, for
instance, the Imbatse issues. The Nassarawa
Youth Congress leader, Ajen Bako, when talking
to NEWISSUES said “Nassarawa State is still
toddling.” He described Al Makura as a failure
already even before his tenure elapse.

Boko Haram's Shekau Says Their Killings Is Victory From Allah

If this man Shekau is really alive then he needs
psychiatric attention. The Boko Haram leader
has claimed the responsibility for the daring
December 20 raid on a military barracks in the
North East in a new video.



The insurgents stormed the barracks in the
town of Bama in a convoy of trucks before
sunrise, opened fired on the soldiers inside then
torched the compound. Several witnesses said
the gunmen kidnapped soldiers as well as
women and children.
“Our fighters stormed the Bama barracks,”
Shekau boasted, while seated on a mat and
flanked by a group of armed men.
“This is a victory from Allah,” said the wanted
man after claiming to have destroyed “21
armoured tanks” and killed “multitudes” in the
raid.
The military is yet to release a death toll from
the barracks attack but sources say the figures
are high.

BREAKING NEWS: Governor Adams Oshiomole Involved In Serious Car Accident

Governor Adams Aliyu Oshiomhole survived a
motor accident at Ewu Village along the ever-
busy Benin-Auchi road in Edo State at about
9.45am Saturday, 28th December 2013 on his
way back to Benin City from his Iyamho
Village.





The incident occurred at about 9.45am at Ewu,
in Edo Central Senatorial District, when a
Peugeot J5 Bus filled with tomatoes and
plantains apparently lost control and rammed
into the Governor’s Flag Car from the opposite
direction before swerving into a roadside ditch.
Three vehicles in the Governor’s convoy were
in front of the Governor’s Flag Car and had
passed the Peugeot J5 Bus before it [J5 Bus] had
direct impact with the Governor’s car, which
had the Governor, his Aide-De-Camp [ADC] and
his Driver as occupants. The Governor’s Car
was badly affected but both occupants of the
Peugeot J5 Bus and that of the Governor’s
sustained no injuries.
The Peugeot J5 Bus was following a truck that
was descending the Ewu Slope when it suddenly
veered off into the Governor’s lane from the
opposite direction and directly impacted on the
Governor’s vehicle, apparently because of brake
failure. The good story is that nobody sustained
injuries in both vehicles. The Comrade
Governor is hale and hearty, his ADC and other
occupants of the Peugeot J5 are also in good
condition.

The incident has been reported to the Divisional
Police Station at Ewu for further investigation.
This is to assure all good people of Edo State
that there is no cause for alarm. Their loving
Comrade Governor is fine, hale and hearty as
well as other occupants of the other affected
vehicle. The Comrade Governor is wishing
everyone a prosperous new year ahead.

Signed
Prince Kassim Afegbua
Special Adviser, Media & Public Affairs.

SEE The Demonic Christmas Gift Kanye West Bought For Kim K (SEE PHOTOS)


Even the girl who has everything doesn't have
this. Kanye West surprised fiancee Kim
Kardashian with a truly priceless Christmas gift
this holiday season: an Hermes Birkin bag that
had been hand-painted by renowned artist
George Condo .


Kim showed off the one-of-a-kind creation
viaInstagram on Thursday, Dec. 26.
"#HandPaintedGeorgeCondo #HermesBirkin
#OneofOne #ChristmasPresentFromYeezy," she
captioned a photo of the designer handbag,
which features a surrealist painting of nude
figures.

Seven Words Ladies Use In A Conversation And Their Meaning (MUST READ)



1) “Fine” – This is the word women use to end
an argument when she knows she is right and
you need to shut up.

2) “Nothing” – means “Something” and you
need to be worried.

3) “Go Ahead” – this is a dare, not permission,
don’t do it.

4) “Whatever" – A women’s way of saying
screw you.

5) “That’s Ok” – She is thinking long and hard
on how and when you will pay for your
mistake.

6) “Wow!” – This is not a compliment; she’s
amazed that one person could be so silly.

7) “KK or K” - This should simply be referred to
as an indirect insult to your existence; infact I
suggest if you are chatting to a girl on bbm and
she uses either of these words, please delete her
immediately because she is indirectly
saying, “ Yo Bruv, LET ME BE please! you are
BORING! ”

Men & Women: How To Manage Your In-Laws and Live In Peace



In Nigeria, a man’s in-laws are major part of the family. In some
cultures, a man’s in laws are perceived as his gods. When you are in
a long-term committed relationship, it is inevitable that you and your
lover interact with each other’s families. Some men, though, never
leave the influence of their families – especially their mothers, the
tension of this tends to create problems that bubble just beneath the
surface, exploding when other situations in the relationship are tense.
The easiest way to avoid in-law problems is to...
Establish friendly but strict boundaries. But for these boundaries to
work, you and your man both have to enforce them. If that were easy
to do and he could be relied on, there would not be the tension that
exists. Add to this mess, fundamental personality conflicts, and you
have the basis for something that could destroy your relationship.
There are many common in-law problems that a wife or girlfriend has
to deal with, and there are some solutions that can at least make
these bad situations less destructive to a love partnership.
Sometimes, mothers-in-law show up and try to take charge. What do
you do if your mother-in-law shows up with ideas different form yours
on how to run the house? What if she insists some household
products are not necessary, and you realise that they are necessary
for you to keep house ? Or that she thinks her son is spending too
much money on running the house or taking care of you?
While you have to interact with his family, distance can help. If you
treat her with respect and deference when on neutral territory, you can
assert control over your own domain. Also, having other engagements
that force you to leave as she is arriving (real or imagined
engagements) might make her feel unwelcome without having to take
it to a confrontation.
When it comes to visiting his mother, he is in charge. Relinquish any
responsibility for making time for the visit and planning the trip to her
place. Cooperate of course, and even encourage him to get there
early. This will make leaving on time all the more easy.
If he complains that you do not cook like his mother or clean like his
mother, it might be time to think back to some conversations you
have had with him. He might have griped about his mother in the
past. This is the perfect time to bring up the things he has said he
dislikes about his family. You are his partner, not his mother and he
needs to be firmly reminded of this in as direct terms as possible.
While the two of you are a couple, there are things of yours that he is
not entitled to lend. If you two have a joint bank account, he has no
right lending money from that to a relative. If he lends a relative his
own money and then is unable to pay bills or contribute to the
relationship as before, this situation needs to be addressed. He needs
to be the one to take charge in asking for the loan to be repaid or
valuable property be returned.
One secret to make mooching relatives go away is to be careful in
sharing the successes you have in life. If you brag about your new
promotion or show off your wealth in any way, those less well off than
you might be envious. And some of your husband or boyfriend’s
relations might be so bold as to ask for some of what you have
earned. Consider it the admission price to bragging rights.
As much or more, tension can occur when you are on the borrowing
side of an in-law money-lending situation. When your in-laws loan
you money, they may have the feeling that they can tell you what to
do with your lives. Often, with an employment situation that involves
working for your in-laws, your job doesn’t end once you leave the
shop or office. Suddenly, you are expected to fulfill all sorts of
domestic demands from your new business .
The only way out of this is to pay off what you owe and get away from
relationships that have a suffocating effect on you. Or better yet, just
never borrow money from an in-law. Pressure to have children is the
number one source of tension between in-laws and the woman who
marries their son. In Nigeria and the entire Africa, marriage
fundamentally means that a couple will be procreating.
This subject needs to be thoroughly discussed and agreed upon
before you two even announce your engagement. If you have two or
three children and an in-law is pressuring you to have more against
your will, you have to either ignore this pressure or insist that your
spouse address it along with you to the person who wants to direct
your reproductive activity.
Expectations are one of the most important reasons to meet and
mingle with his parents before you go too far in a relationship
commitment. If they have expectations that you will be adhering to
specific cultural norms that differ greatly from yours, this needs to be
confronted, examined and understood by everyone, most importantly
your spouse.
Even after marriage, a mother-in-law might insist that you live up to
certain religious or ethnic ideals in your dress, diet or habit.
Understand that many people use these moral codes as a way to butt
in to your private life. Once you let her butt in, she will never butt out.
Do not challenge your in-laws on this most sensitive subject, but do
not let them oppress you with their cultural ideals.

The Lebanese Boss Who Beat Up A Pregnant Woman In Lagos Has Been Arrested



The Lagos State Police Command on Friday arrested Kaveh Noine, a
manager with Toppan Printing Company, who was said to have kicked
his pregnant subordinate, Alice Ossai, in the stomach two weeks ago,
causing her to lose her 7-month-old pregnancy.
According to Lagos State Police command: “In the course of our
investigation, we discovered that Noine was still in the country;
he had fled to Kano. Our men traced him to Kano, arrested him
and have brought him back to Lagos. Presently, he is making his
statement now at the command. The issue of [his] bail has not
come up for now.”
After the story broke on Tuesday, President Goodluck Jonathan, three
days later, directed that the police and the National Human Rights
Commission investigate the matter, expressing his displeasure over
the incident.
Lagos Police PRO Ngozi Braide said, "Even before President Goodluck
Jonathan ordered an investigation into the case, the Lagos State
Police Command has been on it."
34-year-old Alice, a mother of one, was said to have developed pains
in her tummy which lasted for two days before subsiding. The pains
were said to have begun again in the early hours of December 16,
2013, resulting into an emergency surgery at a private hospital at
Fagba.
Her seven-month pregnancy was lost as a result of the kicks she got
from the Lebanese man.
She also disclosed that Noine was in the habit of physically
assaulting workers at the company with anything he could lay his
hands on, whenever he is angry.

I Spend N30,000 To Make My Mohawk Hair In Few days- Adokiye Khiran



Singer Adokiye granted an interview where she revealed that she
spends N30,000 in making her hair for just few days, and ofcus that’s
how she gets to repeat it in days. She says it takes a long process,
which involves, trimming, cutting, tinting and setting. She also said
she can never have a tattoo because her mom forbids it and she
won’t be caught dead leaving her home without her glasses because
they protect her eyes from hash weather and she could also wink at
someone without the person noticing her.

Lastly she currently has 39 different brands of perfume, because they
keep coming out with new ones every day and she is a perfume freak.

Check Out AfroCandy Back In 2007



No be today e don tey..... lol, here is a picture of afro candy in 2007,
she has been in the business long ago. Sexy right?

Female Comedian Princess 7-Month-Old Marriage Crashes



Marriages involving female entertainers can only last when they learn
to drop their fame in the bedroom and in the kitchen. This is mostly
the problem as they often want their husband to treat them like their
fans do.
It is sad but it has happened! The seven-month marriage between
Oluwadamilola Adekoya, popularly known as Princess and Adeshola
Jeremiah has crashed as the busty comedian say she and her young
husband have gone their separate ways due to “irreconcilable
differences”.
It was gathered that the marriage had not been a bed of roses as
both parties had been having incessant fights, which necessitated
family and friends intervening on several occasions.
Princess, a graduate of Theatre Arts from the University of Lagos, got
married on May 8, 2013.
Confirming her marriage break up, Princess said: “It is true, my
marriage has ended. We got married in May. We tried to work it out
but we couldn’t. It happened a while ago. It is not easy for a
marriage to end. All the excitement of marriage has passed. We
wanted to keep it out of the public for a while.”

Deadly Watch List: Presidency Falls Out With Amaechi


The Presidency and Governor Rotimi Amaechi of Rivers State are
locked in a war of words over allegations that President Goodluck
Jonathan is training snipers and keeping 1,000 top politicians on a
secret watch list.
“Governor Amaechi knows what he is talking about and this is
not just a claim; it is what is happening. There are indices the
governor will use to buttress his point. We will not make many
comments now until the invitation from the NHRC comes.
“One thing you should know is that Governor Amaechi does not
say one thing today on an issue and say another thing tomorrow
on the same issue. You are aware of the battle between us and
the police. Considering all we have passed through in the hands
of the police, would anybody doubt the fact that the governor is
on the Presidency’s watch list?”
Amaechi had opened up recently, saying: “I read the President’s letter;
he said Obasanjo should prove and name those on the list. I am
number one on the list. I am number one.”
While he stated that he was the number one person on the
President’s watch list and that he had evidence to support this
assertion, the Presidency has dared the governor to prove his
allegation.
Governor Amaechi, who spoke to Punch through his Chief of Staff,
Chief Tony Okocha, in Port Harcourt, on Thursday, said that he is
waiting for the invitation of the National Human Rights Commission.
In his reaction, the special Adviser to the President on Political
Matters, Ahmed Gulak, threw the challenge to Amaechi in an interview
with Punch. Gulak said:
“Let him (Amaechi) go ahead and prove his claim. I don’t really want
to talk about him because he has lost credibility. He is just like a
drunken man in a china shop that wants to bring down everybody
with him."
But Governor Amaechi stated that even without him talking, all
Nigerians know that he is the most persecuted governor in the country
because he refused to allow Abuja politicians access to Rivers money.

Sexy Girl's Private Part Gets Erect After Kissing A Guy In Club. [PHOTO]



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10 Signs You Are About To Be Dumped In A Relationship (MUST SEE)

Here are some tell-tale signs that indicate you
are about to be dumped. You may think that
your relationship is very secure, but that may
not be the case. Learn to read between the lines
to make sure you know where your
relationship is heading.






Cancels your dates:
Now, we aren't saying that
you need be worried the first time your
boyfriend/girlfriend opts, but when it becomes a
regular occurrence you definitely need to know
the reason behind it. When you plan a date
well in advance there's no reason why your
partner has to be out working late that very
day.

Wants to go out only in a group:
Hanging out
with friends actually helps a couple's
relationship. However, when your partner
refuses to plan a single solo date, you should
question him about it. Like you shouldn't cut
off your friends once you start dating, they
shouldn't be the reason you get to hang out
with your partner.

Ask you to 'connect' with your friends more
often:
When your girlfriend/boyfriend wants
you to hang out with 'your' friends and not 'his'
friends, that should get you thinking. Of course,
you shouldn't obsess over getting friendly with
his friends, but you should have some mutual
friends.

No PDA please:
Has simple things like holding
hands or a peck on the cheek started
embarrassing your boyfriend/girlfriend? It's
time you figure out what happened to that 'I-
can't-get-enough-of-you' phase.

Gets upset when you try to get intimate:

Does she always complain of a headache? Or
does he always say he's too tired? If your
partner comes up with such flimsy excuses
almost every night then you really need to
know what happened to that 'spark' between
you.

Keeps you waiting... and waiting...
If you find
him putting you on hold and then forgetting to
get back it means you aren't on his mind. Don't
be foolish enough to wait for him for an hour
to pick up the phone, instead go have a face-to-
face chat with him.

Doesn't bother returning your calls:
If/she
refuses to revert to your calls and messages, it
means you can't look the other way and hope
that he/she changes her attitude. Your partner
can't take you for granted and you have to tell
him/her that clearly.

Needs some more 'space':
When he/she starts
inserting words like 'lack of space' very often
while talking about your relationship, you
should take some time out to do some re-
thinking.

Refuses to discuss future:
If your partner is
unsure whether he wants to be with you for
long, he is less likely to speak about a scenario
involving the two of you in the future. If he
refuses to move ahead, then maybe it's time for
you to move on.

Calls you fat!
Now that's hitting below the belt.
If your girlfriend/boyfriend keeps making
demands that you get a makeover, maybe you
should ask him/her to get a new partner.

Afrocandy Unleashed Another Nude Photos (Who Will Enter)





her tweet goes like this

wana get some of this? LOl at the kid on the TV what cud he be
saying?...Luv myself & U get it


This mama of two is going gaga


7 Reasons Why Women Break Up With Men

Everybody has that one relationship they
forever regret ending - the one that, after
doing a lot more dating, they realize was
actually pretty great. If you ask anyone why
they ended those relationships, you can
probably expect to hear one of these reasons.
Here are 7 common things women feel should
mark the end of a relationship that usually
should not.





1. He won't move in with you yet

A lot of women have a sort of a timeline for
their relationship. They believe that by some
particular year (for many women it’s between
year 1 and year 3) they should be moved in
with their boyfriend. However, if the man fails
to suggest it, or even rejects the idea when they
bring it up, many women will call it quits.
Why it doesn’t have to end:
Men think about the big picture more than you
give them credit for. And a lot of men, rather
than thinking, “We’ve been dating for three
whole years” think, “We have only been
together three out of the 60-something years we
might be together.” And when you look at it
that way, waiting another year or two, if it
could keep the relationship together, is worth
it. By the way, why not to enjoy a little more
time having a place all to yourself? Probable, it
will be the last time you ever do.

2. He won’t introduce you to his family yet

Women feel more pressure than men when the
question of marriage arises. If they a particular
age still unmarried, they become less attracted
as partners. So a woman is ready to bring a guy
home after just a few months of dating, just to
show her family, “Hey! Look! I won’t end up
alone.” However, men usually need much more
time to introduce their partners to parents.
Thus, many women think the guy’s just not
serious about them.
Why it doesn’t have to end:
Women are far more comfortable leaning on
their family during emotionally trying times
like, say, during a breakup. So they don’t mind
their family knowing about every relationship
that begins and ends. But men often either don’t
feel comfortable turning to their family during
a breakup, or don’t think it’s a burden they
should put on their family, so in order for them
to take a woman home, they need to feel pretty
certain it’s the woman they’ll marry.
Meanwhile females don’t need to know they’ll
marry a male to take him home: they just need
to believe they can be happy for a few years for
now. But for men, bringing a woman home is
his subtle way of saying, “She’s the one.” That’s
worth waiting for.

3. He won’t propose yet

And here we touch upon timeline again: a lot of
women believe that if a man doesn’t propose by
some particular year x, he’s just never going to.
And they believe that if a guy goes silent when
the subject of marriage comes up, he’ll
definitely never propose.
Why it doesn’t have to end:
The truth is that women are usually always
certain of their feelings for a guy long before
the men are certain of their feelings for a
woman. You know it’s true: you probably had
to hold back your giddiness about your guy in
the first few months - or even a year - until his
enthusiasm caught up. But then, when he was
in, he was all in. Almost every woman feels
ready to marry her partner before her partner
feels ready to marry her. Your man is normal,
there is nothing wrong about it. So long as he
talks about the far away future with you
comfortably, there’s nothing to worry about.

4. You’re consumed by insecurities

Hey, we’re all head-trips. We all down-spiral
into these hurricanes of insecurities, thinking
that our partner would be better suited with a
woman the complete opposite of ourselves,
thinking we’ll turn out just like our mothers
and our marriage will turn out just like our
parents’, thinking we’ll get fat the moment we
get married. Many women get so consumed by
insecurities, but are far too proud to bring them
up to their partner, so, rather than live in
turmoil, they just end the relationship, leaving
a very confused man behind.
Why it doesn’t have to end:
Well, your boy has seen enough chick flicks
you’ve dragged him to to know that women
have those thoughts. He won’t think you need
to be committed to the psych ward if you share
your insecurities with him. If he loves you,
he’ll do what’s within his means to ease those
insecurities. And you know what? You’ll have
those insecurities with anybody you date, so it’d
be a shame to walk away from a great guy, only
to date a sea of mediocre men, who will still
elicit those feelings.

5. You don’t feel excited all the time

Feelings of infatuation are some of the greatest
in the world. You always feel like your partner
is on the exact same wavelength as you - he’s
tired when you are, happy when you are, horny
when you are, depressed when you are. You
think, “This is what life is for! This is what
marriage is supposed to be like!” So, when you
suddenly feel out of sync with your partner, it’s
easy to think the excitement was all hormones,
and this is the wrong guy.
Why it doesn’t have to end:
We’re all subject to the same chemicals and
hormones, and studies have found there is in
fact an infatuation phase that ends (at around 2
or 3 years) and while that can be a let down, it
only feels bad for a little bit: you’re just
comparing how it is to that euphoria it used to
be, so of course that will depress you. But if you
stick it out, and focus on having good
conversations with your partner, and doing
things that you bond over, you can actually
reach a new, deeper kind of excitement.

6. You feel your career is stifled

A lot of women are very driven when they’re
single, but when they fall in love, something
happens. Suddenly, there’s a boyfriend to see
instead of attending another networking event.
And suddenly it seems like it’s either got to be
the boyfriend or career.
Why it doesn’t have to end:
Newsflash: this is just a problem of being self-
disciplined! And if you’re not, you’ll always
find something to hold you back from your
career, from your social life to traveling to a
new dog. A good, healthy relationship can
actually enhance your career. If you bounce
ideas off your partner, and lay down ground
rules about days and hours you need to set
aside to work, you can be mentally energized by
your relationship and thrive in your work.

7. His career is stifled
There’s something so appealing about the
creative, entrepreneurial types — until they are
turned down the twelfth time for a grant, or
they have to move into their parent’s place to
save money on rent and save up capital. Some
women can start to feel they’ll face a life of
struggle with a partner like this, and leave.
Why it doesn’t have to end:
Guess what? A guy with a totally “stable” job
could be in his parent’s house at the blink of an
eye. There’s no such thing as a “stable” job—
there’s only such thing as stable passion and
ambition. And a man who has those will
always find a way to succeed. And you know
what? They tend to be happier than the guy at
the “stable” job that he couldn’t care less about.
If you want to be somebody’s wife one day,
you’ll have to wait out hard times. So long as
your partner is actually trying his hardest
every day, start practicing patience now.
So dear women, please, think twice before
making a decision you might later regret.

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