** Recently, it went viral that a Pastor of CLAM
church, Wole Oladiyun warned that Oral S*x
was not for Christians. Maybe he read my
earlier blog post about Nigerian Men and Oral
Sex, or maybe his wife did, and asked him for
some, hehehe. The man sparked o.
**
his words, "men and women sucking their
private parts are equally damaging their glories.
Demonic partners have done a lot of havoc
through this act. Honestly, it is simply
unhygienic and dirty."
Now, I don't understand the first part of his
comment about oral s*x damaging people's
glories, or demonic partners, maybe that is
what he teaches in his church as doctrine and
dogma. If so, I can't really address it, I am not
a pastor obviously, nor his church member. But
the second part exposes that his bias and
personal opinion is what is majorly driving his
condemnation of oral s*x.
Can oral sex be dirty and unhygienic? Yes. If a
man or a woman is not clean and hygienic, or
take good care of their genital health, there is a
great likelihood they will be smelly, or harbor
unwanted fauna and flora in that area. Indeed,
cases have been reported of thrush and other
mouth and throat infections that come from
having oral sex. The more s*xual partners the
person has, and the more lax they are about
keeping themselves healthy, the more likely this
is that diseases may be passed.
However, the assumption is that married people
are faithful to each other, or maybe I'm just
hoping. Also, being married, you most times
become automatically s*xually active and have
to learn to take care of your genital health even
more. You wash up regularly, have your check
up for STIs, and always make sure you smell
clean and fresh before you try to initiate oral
s*x. If all these check out, and both man and
woman are in the mood for some good loving,
then let the fun begin!
So how does this affect Christians? Eya asked on
her blog about the biblical basis of pastors who
condemn oral s*x or about Christians allowing
themselves to enjoy oral s*x, and this is what I
have learned on the matter.
There are passages in Songs of Solomon that
actually promote how couples can enjoy their
sexuality and different aspects of sex. I think
more Christians need to remove their bias
against s*x and read the whole of SOS with
new adult eyes. Usually garden and fruits are
used to refer to female and male private parts.
As an apple tree among the trees of the forest,
so is my beloved among the young men.
With great delight I sat in his shadow,
and his fruit was sweet to my taste.
(Song of Solomon 2:3 ESV)
a garden fountain, a well of living water,
and flowing streams from Lebanon.
Awake, O north wind,
and come, O south wind!
Blow upon my garden,
let its spices flow.
Let my beloved come to his garden,
and eat its choicest fruits.
(Song of Solomon 4:15-16 ESV)
With that said, the bible is just an instruction
manual, for the believing Christian, our full
direction comes from the Holy Spirit in us. If
your conscience makes you uneasy, then it may
not be for you. But be sure it is the spirit,
sometimes, wrong things we learned in the
world can distract us from hearing the spirit
clearly. Like someone said, God is not an author
of confusion. If your wife or your husband
wants oral sex, and you deny him or her, you
are flouting the some bible instructions.
1 Corinthians 7:3-6 :
The husband should fulfill his marital duty to
his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.
The wife's body does not belong to her alone but
also to her husband. In the same way, the
husband's body does not belong to him alone
but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other
except by mutual consent and for a time, so
that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then
come together again so that Satan will not
tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I
say this as a CONCESSION, not as a command.
At the end of the day, it is to each their own.
church, Wole Oladiyun warned that Oral S*x
was not for Christians. Maybe he read my
earlier blog post about Nigerian Men and Oral
Sex, or maybe his wife did, and asked him for
some, hehehe. The man sparked o.
**
his words, "men and women sucking their
private parts are equally damaging their glories.
Demonic partners have done a lot of havoc
through this act. Honestly, it is simply
unhygienic and dirty."
Now, I don't understand the first part of his
comment about oral s*x damaging people's
glories, or demonic partners, maybe that is
what he teaches in his church as doctrine and
dogma. If so, I can't really address it, I am not
a pastor obviously, nor his church member. But
the second part exposes that his bias and
personal opinion is what is majorly driving his
condemnation of oral s*x.
Can oral sex be dirty and unhygienic? Yes. If a
man or a woman is not clean and hygienic, or
take good care of their genital health, there is a
great likelihood they will be smelly, or harbor
unwanted fauna and flora in that area. Indeed,
cases have been reported of thrush and other
mouth and throat infections that come from
having oral sex. The more s*xual partners the
person has, and the more lax they are about
keeping themselves healthy, the more likely this
is that diseases may be passed.
However, the assumption is that married people
are faithful to each other, or maybe I'm just
hoping. Also, being married, you most times
become automatically s*xually active and have
to learn to take care of your genital health even
more. You wash up regularly, have your check
up for STIs, and always make sure you smell
clean and fresh before you try to initiate oral
s*x. If all these check out, and both man and
woman are in the mood for some good loving,
then let the fun begin!
So how does this affect Christians? Eya asked on
her blog about the biblical basis of pastors who
condemn oral s*x or about Christians allowing
themselves to enjoy oral s*x, and this is what I
have learned on the matter.
There are passages in Songs of Solomon that
actually promote how couples can enjoy their
sexuality and different aspects of sex. I think
more Christians need to remove their bias
against s*x and read the whole of SOS with
new adult eyes. Usually garden and fruits are
used to refer to female and male private parts.
As an apple tree among the trees of the forest,
so is my beloved among the young men.
With great delight I sat in his shadow,
and his fruit was sweet to my taste.
(Song of Solomon 2:3 ESV)
a garden fountain, a well of living water,
and flowing streams from Lebanon.
Awake, O north wind,
and come, O south wind!
Blow upon my garden,
let its spices flow.
Let my beloved come to his garden,
and eat its choicest fruits.
(Song of Solomon 4:15-16 ESV)
With that said, the bible is just an instruction
manual, for the believing Christian, our full
direction comes from the Holy Spirit in us. If
your conscience makes you uneasy, then it may
not be for you. But be sure it is the spirit,
sometimes, wrong things we learned in the
world can distract us from hearing the spirit
clearly. Like someone said, God is not an author
of confusion. If your wife or your husband
wants oral sex, and you deny him or her, you
are flouting the some bible instructions.
1 Corinthians 7:3-6 :
The husband should fulfill his marital duty to
his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.
The wife's body does not belong to her alone but
also to her husband. In the same way, the
husband's body does not belong to him alone
but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other
except by mutual consent and for a time, so
that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then
come together again so that Satan will not
tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I
say this as a CONCESSION, not as a command.
At the end of the day, it is to each their own.
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