1. Missionary
According to sex experts, women get the most
pleasure out of basic missionary sex.
“Interestingly, when we surveyed women, good
old-fashioned missionary position was the
overall favorite. There's nothing fancy about it,
but women said they loved the closeness and
the intimacy of having their partner's weight on
them,” says Solot.
But in order for position to be most effective,
Los Angeles-based sex expert and radio host
Lora Somoza says to make sure you’re entering
her at the correct angle. “By going in diagonally
—rather than straight in and out—there’s more
friction for clitorial stimulation, which is best,
since that’s how most women achieve orgasm.”
2. Reverse Cowgirl
In this position, the man is either lying down or
in a sitting position, and the female straddles
him backwards — facing his feet instead of his
face. It’s a key position that also allows easy
access to the clitoris, says sexologist and
sexuality educator Megan Andelloux. “Because
of the easier clitoral access, this position is the
one that is most likely to facilitate an orgasm
because direct clitoral stimulation is easy to
engage in.”
3. Doggie Style
Doggie style is a great position for the woman
because it allows her to have optimal control.
“She is able to adjust her range of motion for an
angle that feels best,” says Amy Levine, a sex
coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure. “He
can likely stimulate her G-spot and have access
to her clitoris with his hand, her hand or a toy,
like a small bullet-shaped vibrator.” Sexologist
Gloria Brame, Ph.D. also stresses the
importance of clitoral stimulation while in the
doggie style position. “She will rarely have an
orgasm if you’re not doing something manually
in front at the same time,” she says.
4. Girl on Top
Another position that allows her to have the
most control of her orgasm is when she’s the
one on top, facing forward. But Somoza
explains that it still needs to be a joint effort.
“You can help her by moving her hips up and
down. It’s a communication thing,” she says.
Levine adds that when the woman is on top,
“she’s in control of the depth and motion, as
well as having easy access to her clitoris for
pleasure.”
5. Spooning
If your lady doesn’t prefer deep penetration,
Andelloux suggests spooning. It’s also good “if
you’re into lazy morning Sunday sex playtime.
It concentrates on stimulation of the front
portion of the vagina or rectum, which is
where the most nerves are located in the
genitals.” Andelloux explains that spooning is
pleasurable because it creates a tighter fit in the
vagina and rectum, so if a woman is looking for
more stimulation from her partner’s fingers or
penis... spoon away.
6. Crisscross
According to Marshall Miller, a sex educator
and co-author of I Love Female Orgasm: An
Extraordinary Orgasm Guide, this is another
great position for clitoral stimulation. “Both
partners are lying down. The woman is on her
back and the guy is on his side. She has her legs
draped over his middle like a giant X,” he says.
“Since your bodies aren't squished against each
other, either you or she can reach down to rub
her clitoris, what most women need to reach
the Big O.”
7. The Pillow Technique
Many sex experts agree that positions often
become more pleasurable for a woman when a
pillow or blanket is added to create a new angle
of entry. In missionary, Levine says to “put a
pillow under her tush to give a pelvic lift. That
can also help the man rub her g-spot with his
penis.” Dr. Brame says it’s a tip that is often
underutilized, and that you can even use
furniture or yoga props. “Certain angles for
some women won’t be comfortable,” he says.
“Ask her what is working for her.”
8. Coital Alignment Technique
This position, created by psychotherapist
Edward Eichel, is considered by many to be the
“greatest sex position in the world.” Start in a
normal missionary position with your full body
weight on top of the woman, not resting on
your elbows. Move forward so that the base of
your penis (your pubic bone) is making direct
contact with her clitoris. Her legs should be
around your thighs and you should be moving
together in a rhythmic, rocking motion. “Some
swear that this position allows for the closest
physical connection and the best clitoral
stimulation based on his positioning,” says
Levine.
9. Ankles Up
“When you’re on top of somebody or flat, you
can’t always achieve full penetration,” says Dr.
Brame—which is why adjusting her leg
positioning allows for deeper contact. “You
have to put her ankles up over your shoulders.
It allows you to go as deep inside of her as
possible and hit her G-spot.” The same deepness
can also be achieved by her bending her knees
or placing the soles of her feet on your chest.
According to sex experts, women get the most
pleasure out of basic missionary sex.
“Interestingly, when we surveyed women, good
old-fashioned missionary position was the
overall favorite. There's nothing fancy about it,
but women said they loved the closeness and
the intimacy of having their partner's weight on
them,” says Solot.
But in order for position to be most effective,
Los Angeles-based sex expert and radio host
Lora Somoza says to make sure you’re entering
her at the correct angle. “By going in diagonally
—rather than straight in and out—there’s more
friction for clitorial stimulation, which is best,
since that’s how most women achieve orgasm.”
2. Reverse Cowgirl
In this position, the man is either lying down or
in a sitting position, and the female straddles
him backwards — facing his feet instead of his
face. It’s a key position that also allows easy
access to the clitoris, says sexologist and
sexuality educator Megan Andelloux. “Because
of the easier clitoral access, this position is the
one that is most likely to facilitate an orgasm
because direct clitoral stimulation is easy to
engage in.”
3. Doggie Style
Doggie style is a great position for the woman
because it allows her to have optimal control.
“She is able to adjust her range of motion for an
angle that feels best,” says Amy Levine, a sex
coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure. “He
can likely stimulate her G-spot and have access
to her clitoris with his hand, her hand or a toy,
like a small bullet-shaped vibrator.” Sexologist
Gloria Brame, Ph.D. also stresses the
importance of clitoral stimulation while in the
doggie style position. “She will rarely have an
orgasm if you’re not doing something manually
in front at the same time,” she says.
4. Girl on Top
Another position that allows her to have the
most control of her orgasm is when she’s the
one on top, facing forward. But Somoza
explains that it still needs to be a joint effort.
“You can help her by moving her hips up and
down. It’s a communication thing,” she says.
Levine adds that when the woman is on top,
“she’s in control of the depth and motion, as
well as having easy access to her clitoris for
pleasure.”
5. Spooning
If your lady doesn’t prefer deep penetration,
Andelloux suggests spooning. It’s also good “if
you’re into lazy morning Sunday sex playtime.
It concentrates on stimulation of the front
portion of the vagina or rectum, which is
where the most nerves are located in the
genitals.” Andelloux explains that spooning is
pleasurable because it creates a tighter fit in the
vagina and rectum, so if a woman is looking for
more stimulation from her partner’s fingers or
penis... spoon away.
6. Crisscross
According to Marshall Miller, a sex educator
and co-author of I Love Female Orgasm: An
Extraordinary Orgasm Guide, this is another
great position for clitoral stimulation. “Both
partners are lying down. The woman is on her
back and the guy is on his side. She has her legs
draped over his middle like a giant X,” he says.
“Since your bodies aren't squished against each
other, either you or she can reach down to rub
her clitoris, what most women need to reach
the Big O.”
7. The Pillow Technique
Many sex experts agree that positions often
become more pleasurable for a woman when a
pillow or blanket is added to create a new angle
of entry. In missionary, Levine says to “put a
pillow under her tush to give a pelvic lift. That
can also help the man rub her g-spot with his
penis.” Dr. Brame says it’s a tip that is often
underutilized, and that you can even use
furniture or yoga props. “Certain angles for
some women won’t be comfortable,” he says.
“Ask her what is working for her.”
8. Coital Alignment Technique
This position, created by psychotherapist
Edward Eichel, is considered by many to be the
“greatest sex position in the world.” Start in a
normal missionary position with your full body
weight on top of the woman, not resting on
your elbows. Move forward so that the base of
your penis (your pubic bone) is making direct
contact with her clitoris. Her legs should be
around your thighs and you should be moving
together in a rhythmic, rocking motion. “Some
swear that this position allows for the closest
physical connection and the best clitoral
stimulation based on his positioning,” says
Levine.
9. Ankles Up
“When you’re on top of somebody or flat, you
can’t always achieve full penetration,” says Dr.
Brame—which is why adjusting her leg
positioning allows for deeper contact. “You
have to put her ankles up over your shoulders.
It allows you to go as deep inside of her as
possible and hit her G-spot.” The same deepness
can also be achieved by her bending her knees
or placing the soles of her feet on your chest.
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