What happens when you are head-over-heels
in love with your girl and she just breaks up
with you out of the blue?
A lot of guys have been a victim of such but her
saying it's over does not necessarily mean it has
to be.
Instead of pining and living in misery over the
break up, how about you try these simple tips
below to get your ex-girlfriend back.
Let her go : This may seem like you are doing
the opposite of what feels natural, but women
enjoy the process of the chase as much as men
do. A post-break up woman will need
validation that you are heart broken over her.
By acting like you are over the relationship,
this will naturally arouse her curiosity in you.
If she is curious about you, then she is thinking
about you, and this is always the first step.
Women also do not like men who are
indecisive. If you show that you have made a
conscious decision and that you have followed
through in getting over her, then she will keep
thinking about you to try and figure it out. Yes,
this means stop all texting, calling,
Facebooking, emails etc. Do not act like your
life is over. Act like everything has gone back to
normal but just that little bit better. Yes, avoid
drunk dialling or drunken texting. Remember,
women are not attracted to guys that ‘need’
them.
Have fun: If you are seen having fun, then she
will definitely know that you are over her, and
will be curious about you. Keep in mind that
most women have friends, and if they see you
having fun, then it will be reported back to
your ex girlfriend. She will remember what it
was that originally attracted her to you. Keep in
mind that ‘having fun’ does not constitute
substance abuse – getting too drunk, too loud,
or too rowdy. A lot of men fall into this trap,
and it just reads as being pathetic. Have fun
with confidence and she will notice.
Tease her : When you do get the chance to speak
with her, then tease her a little – nothing too
drastic, the point is not to insult her. The thing
is women usually react to what they cannot
have. If you appear emotionally unavailable
and throw her a few insults, you will be
surprised with the result. Women say they like
nice guys, but really, they are not attracted to
them. Start with something like, “I like your
dress… I’ve been 3 other girls wearing the same
one today.” Get the idea? Women are used to
guys being overly nice to them. Do not do what
they are doing.
Self Improvement: Pick up those weights, that
guitar, learn that new language. Any endeavour
into self improvement is not only a serious
boost of confidence for you, it shows her that
you look after yourself/are cultured etc and
have other, interesting activities that you’d
much rather put your time into. Again, this
attitude may feel unnatural, but if your ex
girlfriend sees what you could have been up to
instead of spending time with her, this will
arouse her curiosity, and give you a killer new
hobby that will make you into a more learned,
more creative, or fitter person (i.e more
attractive person).
Never , ever, ever, ever bring up the possibility
of getting back together again. Do not make the
first move. Let her make the first move. The
trick is to not to get your ex girlfriend to come
back to you. It is to make it so that she cannot
stay away from you. This can involve a lot of
patience, but the pay off is always worth it.
Move on : Hey, if all of this doesn’t work out at
the end of the day, then take the lessons that
you’ve learned and move on. Dating other
women is a good option. It boosts your
confidence while making your ex girlfriend
jealous, and could be the pathway to finding a
relationship that works better than your
previous one.
in love with your girl and she just breaks up
with you out of the blue?
A lot of guys have been a victim of such but her
saying it's over does not necessarily mean it has
to be.
Instead of pining and living in misery over the
break up, how about you try these simple tips
below to get your ex-girlfriend back.
Let her go : This may seem like you are doing
the opposite of what feels natural, but women
enjoy the process of the chase as much as men
do. A post-break up woman will need
validation that you are heart broken over her.
By acting like you are over the relationship,
this will naturally arouse her curiosity in you.
If she is curious about you, then she is thinking
about you, and this is always the first step.
Women also do not like men who are
indecisive. If you show that you have made a
conscious decision and that you have followed
through in getting over her, then she will keep
thinking about you to try and figure it out. Yes,
this means stop all texting, calling,
Facebooking, emails etc. Do not act like your
life is over. Act like everything has gone back to
normal but just that little bit better. Yes, avoid
drunk dialling or drunken texting. Remember,
women are not attracted to guys that ‘need’
them.
Have fun: If you are seen having fun, then she
will definitely know that you are over her, and
will be curious about you. Keep in mind that
most women have friends, and if they see you
having fun, then it will be reported back to
your ex girlfriend. She will remember what it
was that originally attracted her to you. Keep in
mind that ‘having fun’ does not constitute
substance abuse – getting too drunk, too loud,
or too rowdy. A lot of men fall into this trap,
and it just reads as being pathetic. Have fun
with confidence and she will notice.
Tease her : When you do get the chance to speak
with her, then tease her a little – nothing too
drastic, the point is not to insult her. The thing
is women usually react to what they cannot
have. If you appear emotionally unavailable
and throw her a few insults, you will be
surprised with the result. Women say they like
nice guys, but really, they are not attracted to
them. Start with something like, “I like your
dress… I’ve been 3 other girls wearing the same
one today.” Get the idea? Women are used to
guys being overly nice to them. Do not do what
they are doing.
Self Improvement: Pick up those weights, that
guitar, learn that new language. Any endeavour
into self improvement is not only a serious
boost of confidence for you, it shows her that
you look after yourself/are cultured etc and
have other, interesting activities that you’d
much rather put your time into. Again, this
attitude may feel unnatural, but if your ex
girlfriend sees what you could have been up to
instead of spending time with her, this will
arouse her curiosity, and give you a killer new
hobby that will make you into a more learned,
more creative, or fitter person (i.e more
attractive person).
Never , ever, ever, ever bring up the possibility
of getting back together again. Do not make the
first move. Let her make the first move. The
trick is to not to get your ex girlfriend to come
back to you. It is to make it so that she cannot
stay away from you. This can involve a lot of
patience, but the pay off is always worth it.
Move on : Hey, if all of this doesn’t work out at
the end of the day, then take the lessons that
you’ve learned and move on. Dating other
women is a good option. It boosts your
confidence while making your ex girlfriend
jealous, and could be the pathway to finding a
relationship that works better than your
previous one.
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